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Baby shower question

Is it bad form for my mom to host my baby shower?  I googled it and there are conflicting opinions.  Some websites say it's fine and normal, others say it's not.

Re: Baby shower question

  • I think it sort of depends on the norm in your family/social circle. I think its kind of strange for moms to host showers like that, but I know some people don't.
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    Annelise 3.22.2007 Norah 10.24.2009 Amelia 8.7.2011
  • My mom and MIL hosted mine. If they hadn't I wouldn't have had a shower which would've been fine too but I don't think many people thought it was strange. Like Jess said, it depends on your circle of family/friends.
    10.11.07 ~ 04.08.10 ~ 08.11.12
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  • My shower were hosted by Mom and MIL.  I think it was just easier for her to coordinate.
  • It's normal in our family as well as my friend's families. I wouldn't worry too much about it.
  • Showers in my family are handled by aunts/cousins, but I could see if you don't have other family willing to do that, that having a mom/ MIL host would be ok, too. 
  • It's normal in our families for moms to host too.  My mom and MIL hosted my baby shower.

     Also, the old fashion reasoning behind a mom not hosting a bridal shower (essentially increasing the "dowry" for a member of their immediate family) no longer applies because the married mom to be is no longer part of the mom's  or MIL's household.

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