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it is what it is
Danielle and I are not together anymore. 12 years, gone.
We split Friday and I feel like I am dying.
We agreed to a month "break", but it doesn't look like we will be together.
I want to disappear.
Thank god my work is being really supportive and understanding and I won't get fired for missing work and being less than productive when I am there.
How do people survive this?
Re: it is what it is
Oh no. I am so sorry. I don't have any suggestions other than to be gentle with yourself and take the time you need to heal.
I am thinking about you.
sorry to hear that! Yes, you need to heal, maybe you can go to your family and spend some time with them, or you can go together with your close friends spend a vacation outside your place. Hope this help..
Wow...I am so sorry about this for you. I don't even think there are the right words to say except that you have supportive people here that are thinking of you. I read your post to Sandy tonight and we remember when we looked thru your photos back when I first joined the Nest and you had so many really neat pictures. It's almost like we kinda know you so we are both very sad to hear your news. Try to stay strong and know that we are sending our hugs and thoughts to you....
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I am so very sorry, Season. I was hoping things would work out. If you need anything at all please, please let me know.
I will be thinking of you and sending you hugs, love and peaceful thoughts.
oh season. i'm so very sorry. I was so close to paging you yesterday to see how things were. have you checked out al-anon? please seek out support for yourself; you are just as much a victim of alcoholism as danielle.
You deserve happiness and healing and I'll be wishing you the very best. Please check in as often as you're able.
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Oh Season, I'm so sorry... I can't even imagine how you are feeling right now. Of course you are hurting, 12 years! What happened?
Take all the time you need... time for you, time to figure out what you want apart from Danielle.You will survive this.
I agree with pp also, check out al-anon. They will be able to offer you support specific to that part of your situation, alcoholism hurts more then just the drinker, that is for sure.
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Sorry to hear this Season...remember we all love you and are here for you. If you need anything at all just ask.
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Jumping out of mainly lurking here to say I am sorry to hear your news. I know I have only posted a few times on this board, but my heart goes out to you. Three years ago I got married to my partner...two years later it ended with us going separate ways. We would have been together 9 years that Oct. Although I know no words will heal the pain right now, know that you can survive this.
For the first time after we split, I began to live for myself. I never realized how much I lived for someone else. I did things I never thought I would do - not crazy things, little things like go for a walk on my own, breathe and not worry what would happen, etc. I realized all the good things that were in my life. A year later my life is better, better than I could have ever visualized myself. I know that right now that seems so far away, but start with the little things, getting up in the morning, showering, buying your favorite coffee (or equalivent) and things will move from there.
Again, I aplogize for coming out of lurking, but know that although our siuations were not completely similiar, I remember those emotions and they will get easier each day. Hang in there.
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