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I just found this board and decided I might introduce myself to post a little on here. I live in Justin, TX with my husband and we are newlyweds. He has two older boys already and we are trying for our own now. We have m/c and waiting to start trying again for the third time now. We ranch, farm, and rodeo...just simple kind of people living our story out day by day. I hope you guys don't mind if I have questions ever so often. I am a younger wife and haven't had the best of luck when it comes to stick baby stick....so info on nesting and maternity is always helpful to me. Thank you all and have a wonderful day!
Re: New to this board.
links?
Let me see what all I can find....she's freaked some of the ladies out over there.
Ok well apparently now she's talking about her m/c. I'm very sorry for anyone who did have a m/c but things were just strange from the beginning.
sorry if these are not in exact order!
First posts:
http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/17287561.aspx !!!! read that one first.
http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/17271198.aspx
http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/17387444.aspx
http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/17355226.aspx
More recent posts:
http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/17531759.aspx
http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/17416551.aspx
there might even be more...
Well, I truly am sorry for your loss and I wish everyone nothing but the best.
Sorry, but I don't seem to understand how you can go from just m/c to TTC again just after one cycle. My OB told me to wait until my levels (ie. HCG levels) went back down to a normal level before TTC again. Typically, that could take up to 3mos or longer. The way that I understand it, if you m/c & try to TTC again & get PG just after m/c then you most likely will m/c again. If it was me, I'd wait until I knew what in the "hell" was happening with my body, especially now adding in blood clotting to the mix.
FWIW, I'm a lurker and used to post alot years ago. I had an 11 week m/c this year and they did ask me to wait 2 cycles which was roughly 3 months. Some get pg before their first cycle and are ok, some m/c again. I don't know anyone on here really, and not to stick up for texasmed, but after my miscarriage I could be considered 'blase' or however it's spelled because I had a crappy support system and no one would just give me a hug and tell me it was ok to cry (except for DH of course). I was expected to wake up from my d&c and go about my life like nothing had happened - work, family, parents, certain friends that are not 'true' friends, etc.. I used the 'blase' attitude to cope and not let the crap get to me.....now I did have a breakdown about a month later because of this, but that's beside the point. The point is everyone doesn't react to a m/c the same. I try to be very sensitive and caring to anyone that has had a m/c because I know it's heartbreaking, but that doesn't mean everyone is going to post on a message board about it the same. So Texasmed, I'm sorry for what you are going through and I hope for your sake you are just not great at explaining yourself (I have that problem) and are taking care of your health with the help of your medical provider and not people on a message board
Everyone else - what if all of this is true? What are you investing in this person's life that is making you so upset? I hope it's just a post on a message board and you aren't taking it farther than I can gather. Just don't respond to her posts and don't accept the friend requests if it bugs you that much.
Exactly... who cares??? Just don't respond to her, don't meet up with her, it is that simple. Who cares where she lives vs where she goes to med school etc...
Her previous posts were odd, whether they were legit or not, and I think LauraM85 was just trying to look out for her fellow nesties knowing all of the hubbub they caused on the other board. I could be wrong, but that's my guess since I don't think she's one to stir up drama. And you're right, people can judge for themselves whether or not they want to respond to her future posts, which is why I asked for links.
Exactly, thank you!
You're right... I'm definitely not one to start drama. lol