Hmmm.. weird... thoughts please...

Mrs.Orly

so I needed to share this... this week i was contacted by two past "romances" how weird is that?!?!? years before DH (obviously) I use to see this guy at work (big mistake)like a year later after we dated, he got fired (for an unrelated reason) never heard from him again until Monday that he emailed me at my old personal email that i barely check anymore!!! Just to say hello...

TODAY the guy i dated right before DH and I got together called me at work and left me a message "just to say hi" again havent heard from him in a while either (not that i wanted to KIT with him anyway)... needless to say I am not calling him back, theres no point but I just found it so weird that these guys decided to contact me this week???

I asked a friend of mine if its worth mentioning to DH, i mean its not like they said anything disrespectful... shoot they do not know that i got married and i do not plan on contacting either one of them.  What do you ladies think?  Should I mention it to DH?  I have turned the table and asked myself would I like to know if any of his past romances try to contact him?  And i tell myself HECK YEA LOL but thats just me being the typical woman...

 Have any of you been in this situation?  What did you?

Mrs.HisOnly

My ex before Alexis (we were together for 4 years) used to contact me a lot. He apparently did not realize how much he loved me until after I left him. A**hole.

Anyway, LOL. Moving along.

I have found this to be a lose/lose situation in my case. If I don't tell him and he finds out I'm totally screwed. If I tell him, so I don't have that worry, he still gets upset.

I always tell him anyway, because if he finds out some other way it just looks bad. My husband has a sensitive spot for ex's since all his ex's cheated on him with their's.

 

Mrs.Orly

thats my exact thought... my friend Anthony, the photographer you know... he told me it was best not to say anything it would only upset him.  But like you said, if he finds out, then it looks bad too...  Im leaning towards to telling him but i just dont want him to think my ex's are coming back to stalk me... 

marsh127

I think I'd mention it. I haven't had it happen since we got married, but it happened when we were dating.  He knew it wasn't a big deal, so it wasn't an issue.  Just reassure him that you're not contacting either of them and that it's no big deal. 

Ceventa

I would mention it, merely because of the fact of how weird it was in your opinion. I would simply say, " You want to hear something weird? ____ and _____ sent me an e-mail this week to see how I was doing. Odd". You can simply say it nonchalantly and tell him how weird you thought it was, which is true. He'll probably ask you why you think they contacted you and if you wrote back. No biggy.

britishbride05

i would tell dh, but we would laugh about it and dh doesn't care about that stuff. 

chachita07

Think about it if you were in his shoes.. Would you want him to tell you?

Just let him know. its always better to get things out versus being worried that he might findout in the future and be upset about something very minimal.

GL!