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Confession Session??

Anyone have any confessions they'd like to get off their chest?

I have one and it might be flameful and immature.  So DH has two brothers (one younger and one older).  His younger brother has already had two babies and they're both girls.  Well his older brothers FI is now pregnant and they're finding out the sex today.  While I'm happy for them, I secretly hope it's a girl even though everyone thinks it's a boy.  They even went as far as to register already for boy stuff even though they don't know the sex.  I just feel like when it's finally time for DH and I, there will be nothing to get excited about for our baby.  There will already be the first girl and first boy.  I know, I know it's immature and probably flameful! 

Feel much better!

Re: Confession Session??

  • That's a good one! I can understand what you mean... I do think it's silly that they've registered for boy stuff based on a feeling.

    Not much of a confession - but I had a pretty awful-for-me breakfast.. thank goodness tonight is a Trainer night.

  • I would like someone to throat punch my cube mate for being annoying. 
  • I secretly want to make H get up with me every time the baby wakes up, but I know that's stupid because he has to work in the morning and I would never want him driving tired. But boy am I jealous of him sleeping thru the feedings!
  • -I want to leave work right now and not come back until August.  I'm waiting for a new project to start and I'm not getting any new work until then.  I'm bored.  I finished my papers for school and I'm doing extra training to tide me over--which I just finished.  Plus, my boss is out this week = no motivation.

    -I don't want to eat what I brought for lunch, I'd rather have a chicken cutlet Italian from Tony Lukes.  The only thing that's keeping me from making the 2 minute drive is the fact that I have to be in a bikini in front of H's entire work next Thursday. 

    -I'm jealous that H is off at a conference in San Antonio.  I hope he doesn't have too much fun without me.

    -I'm also jealous of my neighbors.  They're both teachers and spend all day sitting around at home.  They just got a little puppy and it's been freaking yipping away and then they yell at it.  That's what they were doing at 10pm last night.  I felt like stomping on the floor and yelling back.  Oh, and they slam their sliding closet doors all the time.  Especially when I've just gotten in bed and I'm trying to fall asleep.  Thanks.

    -

  • I confess that my one roommate has been slightly annoying lately.  Our other roommate just started dating this guy and they like each A LOT and it is so cute because she never has had a boyfriend or anything like this and she is really excited about it.  She's more of an independent girl and a loner of sorts, but they are sooo cute together and I am sooo happy for her. 

    Well anyway the slighty annoying roommate as of late, is so jealous over the whole thing and it is ridiculous.  She desperately wants to be married and wants to find her mr. right, but I swear since she is looking for it she is never going to find it.  And it is just so annoying that she can't be happy for our roommate, who by the way is her cousin.  You can see her turn green with envy I swear.  And trust her boy comes over a lot but they just chill and I have no problem with it, but she made a comment the other day about how she is turning into "that" girl, you know the one with the guy over all the time.  And she isn't AT ALL, but once again jealously reers it's ugly head and it's so stupid.  I on the other hand don't want any type of relationship right now and I am enjoying single life, especially since it is my first single summer since '05, so fun!

    Loooong story short, my friend with the boy and his friend are coming this weekend to AC. My brother got us free niceeeeee rooms at the Harrah's waterfront tower, we are talking the 500 sq. ft. rooms, woop woop! And I had mentioned to my friend that she should bring him since he's never been to AC and what an awesome way to experience it.  Now the other roommate is all pissy and throwing me under the bus to the other roommate, saying I couldn't say no cause she was so excited. UGH, get overrrrrrr it!

    OMG this was like the longest post ever, but it is just sooo aggravating.  I am happy that I am done work at 1pm tomorrow, I will be on a train at 2pm home to jersey and then I am relaxing and getting pumped for the weekend.  It's all whatever in the end and the drama IS NOT following me to AC. :)

  • I wish I knew of a good enough way to punish my typically great husband.

    Thankfully, overall he's been great. Today I'd like to beat him. He acts like he's got so much on his plate. Yesterday and today he sat around because he was on call for jury duty. Today he actually has to report at 1 PM. He's been leaving dirty pots and pans on the stove or in the sink. I'm pregnant and this sends me barfing. Today I come home from work and the house smells like eggs (if you're not pregnant imagine rotten eggs stuffed up your nose). A pot is in the sink and a pan is on the stove along with salt and pepper everywhere. I proceed to heave over the trashcan and make my way upstairs. I ask him to please wash his dishes before he leaves. He says nope. I say I can't handle the smell without vomiting. He says then you better not go downstairs. I cry, but not as a convincing tactic. I cry because I've been sick for 16 weeks and though I'm thankful for our blessing sometimes I just can't take it. He washes the dishes hastily and quickly and storms out the door and into his car all before 12:20 acting as if I'd made him late for a once in a lifetime interview or something (we live 5 minutes away).

    So yeah, he did what I asked him to. But all the wrong way, so it doesn't remove him from my sh!itlist. I really wish he had a real job with regular hours in the summer.

  • Is slightly annoyed with our dog and has had moments where I wished we didn't have him ...bad me!!!  He's a REALLY active dog and has seperation anxiety and we can't get up and go anywhere without planning around him or for someone to watch him.  I wish he could stay out of the cage but he would rip our house apart....I would love to be able to just to the beach for the day and not have to worry...ahh the life of being a dog parent :)

     and NJBride...I completely know where your coming from....It was always thought in my family that I would be the first to have a baby and my parents always talked about how excited they are going to be and then my little sister accidentaly gets pregnant....although I'm VERY excited, I get a little sad seeing my parents all excited about the baby b/c I know I won't be the one giving them their first grandchild....now the hope is that whatever she has (girl/boy) that I have the opposite

  • I want to confess that I want to stop working...I told the husband that I would work after the baby, but now that I am spending time with my baby I don't want anyone else spending time with him. 
  • -I seriously want to go home now.  I was walking out to my coworker's car to go run errands during lunch and I slipped on a brand spanking new granite curb they're putting in with all of this stupid construction as I was trying not to break my ankle in a mound of dirt I had to step over.  So my foot slipped and a huge CHUNK of skin came off of my foot and it ruined my shoe.  EFF that hurt!  So right now I'm missing skin the size of a quarter from my left foot and it's burning and bleeding like a MOTHER *%&^*^(

    I hate this construction!!!!!!!!!

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    Anyone have any confessions they'd like to get off their chest?

    I have one and it might be flameful and immature.  So DH has two brothers (one younger and one older).  His younger brother has already had two babies and they're both girls.  Well his older brothers FI is now pregnant and they're finding out the sex today.  While I'm happy for them, I secretly hope it's a girl even though everyone thinks it's a boy.  They even went as far as to register already for boy stuff even though they don't know the sex.  I just feel like when it's finally time for DH and I, there will be nothing to get excited about for our baby.  There will already be the first girl and first boy.  I know, I know it's immature and probably flameful! 

    Feel much better!

    awww. i totally understand!  but trust me, you will be so excited you will not even care about others being excited! 

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  • I must confess that I love that this post has 11 replies, yet 215 views and a star.  People are nosy, yet don't want to participate! :)
  • Ha ha ha...I love secret stalkers
  • I guess our confessions are that good  Wink
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