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Random wedding rant...
So our wedding was in October- almost 7 months ago to the date.
3 are our good friends we see regularly- like 3-4 times a month didn't give us a card or any type of gift or acknowledgement when we got married. They all did, however take full advantage of the 6 hour open bar and enjoyed themselves to the point of 2 of them throwing up in the hall and outside of the hall. Those 2 had to be escorted out by 2 of my uncles-kind of embarrassing that 2 30 year olds couldn't even handle themselves at a family event, but whatever.
All 3 keep telling us every time we see them, oh I have your wedding card. And make a big deal about it. I say really it's ok. You didn't have to do anything. But thinking - Ok so if you have our wedding card, drop it in the mail already and stop telling me 4 times a month for 7 months about it. If you are just saying it to make yourself feel better that you didn't get us a gift, just stop already, because I don't care at this point! We've been to their houses as well, and when we are there, it is NEVER mentioned.
I'm not trying to sound like a brat, but I am so sick of hearing it every weekend! I don't even want the gift at this point. I just want them to shut up about it. That's that. Now just shut up already about it!
Ugghhhh...bad day! Thanks for letting me vent.
Re: Random wedding rant...
well... i don't know if it'll help.... but we are totally that couple. it takes us a while to get a gift, and then once we do, we always forget to bring it with us when we see them. we don't like actually bringing gifts to weddings. i worry i'll lose it or it'll get lost in the shuffle of things or i feel bad for whoever has to haul gifts around after the reception. but we always come through in the end, even if its a year later.
but i agree that its annoying they keep bringing it up again and again. just drop it until you bring it with you!
Because we're fancy like that.
lucy mae 9.26.11
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hey girl! What's up? That is completely frustrating. I would bring it up next time you're over. "So where is this wedding card I hear about so much!" Said with an innocent smile.