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Can I have some good vibes please?

Hi Ladies,

I'm going to put myself out there a little bit. Hope you can bear with me.

 I want a baby so bad I can taste him/her. BFN today.

Still no job and no interviews.

And most terrifying of all: DH's doctor was concerned about a few things at his last visit and has ordered some tests that scare the hell out of me; and if I think about it i might start bawling, so I'm just going to go shopping and possibly have a bottle of wine or two for dinner. I'm trying to stay busy and not focus on any of this stuff, but I'm scared and panicky.

I wil prob delete this today. Thanks for listening.

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Re: Can I have some good vibes please?

  • Oh honey...Im sorry.

    Email me at work : )

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  • I'm sorry, you're going through some rough times =(  I'm sure it's all worse in your head, we always think of the worst, try not to think about it (I know easier said than done)... keep as busy as you can!!!  We're always here to listen!
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  • I'm sorry your going through this.  Sending positive thoughts your way.
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  • Not sure if you "do" nest dust or not, but we're big beleivers on my hometown board...so....lots and lots of job-getting, BFP, and healthy DH dust your way!

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  • Sending some good vibes your way!  I hope everything works out.
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  • awwww poor thing, i'm here if you ever want to talk! seriously...you know my number :) and i will be sending tons of T&Ps your way....and i think a bottle of wine or 2 is a good idea for tonight :)
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  • Aw, thanks you guys. This is the best board ever-its nice to know you're thinking of me and all of you are such sweethearts. I will keep you posted. We should hear from the docs by Monday I think. Till then, I'm determined to have a good weekend.:)

     

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  • *hugs*

    Let me know if there's anything I can do.  And you can totally have of my baby dust.  I don't want it anywhere near me for the next 6 years.  Just take good care of it!

  • Hugs! I hope that wine tasted good. And that you'll get good news on Monday. Just try to relax and enjoy the weekend. 

     

    As for the baby thing, I've been there myself. It took us about 8 months to conceive and the last few months before the BFP were so tough! I was so invested in it and wanted it so bad that every time it didn't  happen I was so upset. We went on a trip to Europe and I was so hoping that that would be our lucky month, but it wasn't. I was super dissapointed and sad bc I had to spend an extra 2 weeks in Europe for a conference while DH went home. But then I got home and it happened that month! It will happen for you too. Just try to stay positive and enjoy the process as much as you can. Have you been charting temps? That's what I did and that helped me enormously figuring out what the best days were.

  • Thank you Esther and Em!

    Your kind words an encouagement really help. I ended up having haagen daas for dinner instead of wine. Of well! About the same amount of calories I suppose. I indulged in some retail therapy too :)

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