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XP: vent

SIL and I have always been close. Well atleast I think we were. Ever since I told her about our relocating and moving across the country, we haven't seen each other. She's been "busy" and unable to hang out.  Stopped inviting me to go out w/ her. For example, we had talked about how we wanted to hit the beach together this summer. I had (have) a 5 day stretch of days off. I told her last week about my time off and told her to let me know what she wanted to do this weekend so we could hang out and have some girl time since time is running out before the move.She went to the beach without me yesterday. Yes, my feelings are hurt. I just feel like she's been avoiding me a lot lately. I asked her straight out about it earlier this week. (The same convo when I told her I had a all this time off) she said no, she's just been busy. She's never been too busy to at least CALL me. I've known her for 11 years.I'm sad. And hurt. She doesn't seem to understand. Vent over.  

Re: XP: vent

  • I'm sorry!  Maybe she's just sad that you guys are moving away and doesn't know how to express it.  It's crappy that she's blowing you off though, regardless.  I'd buy the "too busy" excuse - I haven't had time to call/see friends for a couple of months now between training, work and the exam - but if she had time to go to the beach yesterday, she has time to at least make a phone call.  :(  I'm sorry...I wish I had something better to say.
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  • That sucks  :(  I agree with Duff that she is probably upset that you are leaving.  Maybe she thinks spending less time with you now will make it hurt less for her later when you really are gone.  But whatever her reason, that is a sucky friend thing to do.
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  • I imagine she's feeling abandoned by you.  It's an illogical response, but when are emotions ever logical?

    Sorry she's bumming you out!

     

  • Thanks for the support everyone. I just left her a little note on her FB page telling her to just give me a call or something when she has time. I've leaving it at that. She can't say I didn't try. 
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