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I need help

My fiance wants to change the wedding date...again! We've changed about three times already, and this time HE sent out the invitations, then he said we had to postpone. I think I should just leave him. I really don't think he wants to get married. but is too chicken to tell me. His uncle is gravely ill, but quite frankly, I don't think that's a good enough excuse. he's done this (reschedule), without considering my feelings. What makes me think he's not going to do this again?

 I think I'm just scared to face the fact that he doesn't have the b... to tell me he doesn't want to break it off.

 Has anyone gone through so much bull and still gotten married?

 

 

Re: I need help

  • I'm sorry, but that doesn't sound good.  My husband couldn't wait to get married- he would have eloped if I was ok with it!  Not knowing all of the facts, it does sound like he's got cold feet, but doesn't want to say anything.  If you so easily think you should walk away, then do it-- if it was truely meant to be, you wouldn't even be thinking about leaving.  I would definately be sitting down and having a serious talk with him.  Good luck!

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  • Without knowing you or him, it's hard to give sound advice. I just wanted to say, I'm sure this isn't an easy thing to go through & best of luck to you.

  • i would sit him down and have a what i refer too as a "come to jesus talk" you need to get to the bottom of his problems and fears and then make the best decision for you. not him,,, you
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