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TMI poll
Inspired by Lena and Kristy
So how often do you and DH have s-e-x?
Did it change after baby?
Does either one of wish it was more? less?
Re: TMI poll
So how often do you and DH have s-e-x? On avg maybe 1-2 times a week.
Did it change after baby? It actually increase after J (yeah it was kind of boring in our household)
Does either one of wish it was more? less? Right now I'm ok, it's just with me still having 2 periods a month and our opposite schedules and co sleeping, finding time is hard.
Ummm... never. We aren't allowed to due to placenta previa, but I am so uncomfortable I wouldn't want to anyway.
n/a
I am sure MH wishes it was more!
After 2 rounds of IVF & 2 rounds of FET, we were blessed with identical twin girls!
So how often do you and DH have s-e-x? It depends right now on how often we get to see eachother. But maybe like twice a week on average?
Did it change after baby? Yes. Took a long time for it to get back on track. It was very frustrating.
Does either one of wish it was more? less? When I am Oing my drive gets way high and I think I wear H out. lol But the other times of the month I think he wishes it was more. I think I drive him crazy with my mood swings. lol
Pretty much daily- unless I happen to fall asleep first, lol. If I'm lucky only 5x/week.
He wishes it was daily, I wish it was 2-3x/week.
No kids yet- so no change there- but we've been TTC our whole marriage, and the last 2 years have been more focused TTC... so I'm kinda just over it all.
I don't think we've ever done it 5x a week. Ever. Even when we were young and spry. Well ok. Maybe then. But definitely not now.
So how often do you and DH have s-e-x? Every other day.
Did it change after baby? Oh yeah. After I had C my desire went down the hole. After talking about my hang ups w/a few besties (including Val) I finally just let my issues go & we've been fine since.
Does either one of wish it was more? less? I'm sure P wishes more. Actually I know. Nah. I wish I was tired less.
Did it change after baby? n/a
Does either one of wish it was more? less? I'm in the same boat as Kristy haha
Haha...sure. Go for it.
I think my hormones were really out whack the past couple of years as I never wanted to and my cycles were super long. So it was about 1 or 2x's a week. But recently it's been more like 4 - 5x's and my cycles are more normal now. May be related or may be completely a coincidence.
n/a
Dh wants it more. He would be happy with everyday.
So how often do you and DH have s-e-x? About every other day, sometimes every two days.
Did it change after baby? TBD
Does either one of wish it was more? less? I'm fine whith what it is. I'm pretty sure H is too, he'd tell me if he wanted more/less.
You go! After two nights in a row we're both tired and (TMI!) sore and need a break.
Side note: Last cycle I was trying to be flirty with H and he just looked at me and said "Oh you must be ovulating". It cracked me up.
Im convinced my H is trying to kill me- I should schedule in vacations, lol!
1. Honestly 1-2x a week...leaning more towards 1
2. Very much so! We were pretty crazy kids
It's still pretty painful at first - don't know why. I didn't tear bad and only 1 stitch.
3. He definitely wishes for more! He could be an every day guy. He also doesn't tend to really try anything with me b/c he feels bad that it hurts. I want to get back on track too, but I'm always soooo tired and we've been so busy with L, and house hunting, and moving . . .hopefully things will start to settle down more now.
That's us exactly.
OMG. My vag would fall off, I think. I don't think I have ever in my life had sex 5-7 times in a week!
After 2 rounds of IVF & 2 rounds of FET, we were blessed with identical twin girls!
LMAO!!
HAHAHA!
LOL!!!!! Omg, that was the best laugh I've had in a LONG time!
Haha! Kim you're hilarious!
We do it enough, and that's all I'm saying