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the freak out point

I think Trav officially reached the freak out stage this weekend. We were talking about a whole bunch of things while driving on Saturday and he went off on this panic-y tangent about how we aren't going to be able to afford daycare and he's going to have to subsist on ramon noodles and he's going to end up getting fired because i was looking at daycares near him and he can't leave all the time to pick up our sick kid, etc etc etc.

I think I just sat there with my mouth hanging open until he finally took a breath... at which point I tried to offer him what reassurance I could, and basically told him that while it would be an adjustment at first, we would figure this all out and he isn't going to get fired. Lol.

I do understand where he is coming from... daycare is so expensive, and its overwhelming to think about all the little details that will be changing or need adjustment. But I just had to smile that apparently this baby is becoming rather real to him now!


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Re: the freak out point

  • Awww, poor Trav!  It is cute what you said about the baby being real now :)  It's totally understandable though, this is the biggest adjustment a couple can ever make!
  • Okay I wrote a long response at midnight and the Nest ate it....to sum it up...I think it's really kinda cute that Trav had a freak out moment. I love how his mind went from picking up a sick baby to getting fired.  That's the type of stupidly large leaps I sometimes make.  You're right that there will be big changes but I have no doubt you and Trav will make it through each change (and with more than Raman in your bellies)!
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