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Bachelorette Ideas
My fellow bridesmaids and I are throwing a bachelorette party this weekend. It will just be close friends, bridesmaids and one other friend. We have a hotel room and are going to the pool all day Saturday, then to dinner and some quieter bars. She doesn't want to do the typical bachelorette activities and doesn't want to draw attention to herself at all.
So far we are bringing in lunch, drinks and desert. We'll also do a champagne toast and treat her all night... I know that we will have a great time together because we do girl nights frequently, but I want her to feel special and not like it is any old girls night out.
Does anyone have any bachelorette ideas that don't involve blow up genitalia, "suck for a buck" necklaces, or anything of the like (per her wishes)? 
Any ideas would be appreciated.
ETA- We are totally respecting her wishes. I'm just wondering if anyone has any creative ideas.
Re: Bachelorette Ideas
A friend of mine was telling me about a bachellorette party she recently went to where they had everyone buy a pair of panties for the bride to be, and strung them up in the hotel room. She then had to try to guess who bought what panties. She said it was a lot of fun, and the bride ended up having a bunch of new undies too.
^^ that's a pretty cute idea!
Funny you made a post about this, I just uploaded my very drunken pics from mine to fb tonight!
Kind of along the lines of the panty line...I heard about one game where everyone brings a pair of panties (wrapped and new, obviously
) and you play a white elephant-type game so everyone ends up with a pair of panties. I never asked the girl what they did about sizes, however. Hmm.