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Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
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Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
A WWYD Dilemma
A guy I went to college with (very small school) took his own life yesterday. I just read his obit and learned that his parents are gone and he left a brother. The dilemma I have is if I should go to the funeral. I don't remember him, but I'm sure if I saw older pictures it would jog my memory. The funeral is 30 minutes from where I'll be moving or 9 minutes from where I'm currently staying. A lot of my classmates are going and since I'm so close I'm feeling an obligation. No one has said anything, nor do I think they would, but still. WWYD?
ETA: 90 minutes from where I am staying NOT 9
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Re: A WWYD Dilemma
I'd go. But I am a funeral person b/c I am big on paying last respects.
I wouldn't judge or condemn you if you did not go.
This is legal advice. Circa 2011
Never ever? I'm having trouble grasping this.
MT, I changed my mind about this while thinking about it in class. Our actual college within LSU was pretty small and there's only a handful of people who's funeral I would attend. If I didn't really know the guy, I probably wouldn't go.
Yep, never ever.
Until recently I had all of my grandparents. My mom's dad died April 08, but I went and saw him right before he died. I didn't go to the funeral. I had to fly to Portland, and I thought it better to actually say goodbye than attend the funeral. I've never been to a funeral, I know it's inevitable, but I like that I have avoided it thus far.