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Longest day ever.

I didn't mention it b/c I wasn't really ready to talk about it (and I'm not really sure I am yet) but my grandma passed away last week.  We had her funeral today.  There's been a lot of drama in that side of my family over the past year - prob the past couple years actually, since my grandpa died.  Of course, today was no exception.  My grandma also asked me to speak at her funeral a couple of months ago, so I had to do that...it was the first time I'd ever done something like that.  Much harder than I expected.

Anyway, I'm wiped out now and not sure what to do w/most of the drama.  Most of it will just go away (it's my aunt and cousin) but some if it is my mom (and this is my dad's mom that passed).  Should be interesting to work out.  I just wanted to fill you all in since I hand't really told anyone what had happened...I was pretty devestated. 

Damn you Nest for screwing up my siggy!

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Vacation

Re: Longest day ever.

  • Val, im so sorry for your loss. Im sure it wasn't easy to speak up there but im sure you did a wonderful job. Sounds like you need to rest, relax, and have a drink!
  • Val, I am so sorry for your loss. I am sure you did a wonderful job and your grandma is proud of you. Drama at a funeral sucks. I have been though it and wanted to shake the people and tell them to shut the f*ck up and that it is not about them. Ugh....
  • Val, I am so sorry.  I know how hard it is to speak at someone you loves funeral.  I spoke at my Grandmom's funeral a couple of years ago.  I'm sure it was beautiful.  I hope all of the drama resolves itself quickly.
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  • Val, you were in my thoughts today and yesterday - I was wondering how you holding up.  I'm sorry the drama just keeps pouring on this situation.

    If there's anything I can do - even if you just need to talk, you know where to find me. *hugs*

  • Thanks guys...it really means a lot.  I'm sure everything will work out.  It's just that when there's stuff going on w/my mom, I usually get put in the middle...especially if it involves my sister(s) (it does).  I visited her today and it seems a little better already.

    The service yesterday really did go well.  My grandma had planned all of it over the past couple of months, so it was everything she'd wanted.  She had cancer for the past year and they couldn't treat it b/c the treatments messed with her diabetes...so we've been waiting for this for a long time now.  She had been in a lot of pain and she'd been asking for my grandpa lately, so it's nice to know that they're back together (if that's what you believe in...personally, I'm trying to figure that one out, but I really like that idea right now).

    Anyway, thanks for the kind words. 

    Damn you Nest for screwing up my siggy!

    .: Diary of a Recovering Runner :.

    Vacation
  • I was thinking about you too Val, I'm so sorry you have to go through this. Vent anytime you need too.
  • Val you were in my thoughts all day on Friday. I'm sure what you said was beautiful and meant a lot to your grandma. Hopefully the drama will work itself out.
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss.
  • I'm really sorry for your loss.  Sometimes it's just as sad to see the turmoil that comes from a loved ones death.  I hope it all works itself out. 
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