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Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
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Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Re: How Predictable
this is fanTASTIC.
good move on removing the website - i'm so sorry for renee, even more so because she has one shittastic ass friend in the OP.
If Renee has been hurt by your thoughtless actions, I am saddened. I certainly didn't intend for her to be affected by any of this. She seems like quite the incredible fighter.
Further, when I was told that something might be awry, I not only removed the website link, but I also removed the entire interchange in question and replaced it with "[removed]" -- that was not The Nest's doing. I did that.
I don't know you. I don't wish ill on you.
You asked a question. Two people answered it. You didn't like the answers.
If any harm arose from this episode, you alone caused that harm. You composed those ugly words. You linked to the website. You used real names. You shared your mean thoughts on a public forum.
You have no one to blame but yourself for whatever unpleasantness you may be experiencing right now.
I didn't say those hurtful things about Renee. You did.
You say I have noone to blame but myself? Well actually I do, and I BLAME YOU. Right after I posted the thread, you made a comment that was honest & blunt (something that I NEEDED to hear) and it took me by surprise. I soon came to realize that the post was inappropriate & that no strangers would understand the history Renee and I have had from 3 short paragraphs where I was VENTING my frustrations, so I decided to immediately take it down. YOU took what I wrote, copied and pasted it like a complete psycho and started a new thread where all your little cyber buddies continued to verbally bash me. I did nothing.
As if that wasn't enough...your life is obviously SO UNEVENTFUL that you decided to then post it on Renee's cancer website. So who is the evil one here? The person that made a huge mistake by posting something that she thought WAS ANONYMOUS or the person that PURPOSELY hurt many, many people by not MINDING HER OWN BUSINESS? I would have had NO PROBLEM with you emailing ME, telling ME what an awful person I am......but posting it on Renee's website? That defies all levels of human decency and for that you should be ashamed.
Renee called me sobbing on Tuesday asking me to find a way to get it off the website, so I tracked down the guy who runs her website and he immediately took it down.
You then POSTED IT ON THERE AGAIN later that evening.
WOW.
It would have been one thing to email Renee ONLY with the post, but to post it on her public website for everyone to see? As if it wasn't bad enough for her to have to read something horrible that someone wrote whom she thought was her good friend, now EVERYONE SHE KNOWS can read these horrible things that have been written about her.....
I'm sure you thought you'd sit behind your little desk at your little law firm, with your Paul Frank tee on and watch the drama unfold anonymously.....NOT QUITE. ?I have enough info on you now the press charges and will not stop until you get what you deserve. You are a bored, lonely CYBER BULLY and you will get what is coming to you...make no mistake about it.?
Please stop. Seriously. I'm embarrassed for you. Are you all there? You don't sound like it. Have you really convinced yourself that it's someone else's fault other than your own that your poor friend has been humiliated and hurt by cruel words? You're sad.
???
I have posted nothing on Renee's website.
Couldn't have said it better.