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Wake up call

Piggybacking off the post-wedding weight poll I posted weeks ago...

Now, and in the past, what has been your "OMG I've gained *this* much weight? Must. Stop. moment"?  

Is it the way your clothes fit? How you look in a mirror? Someone asking if you if you're pregnant? Finding an unflattering photo tagged of you on FB?

Count me in the last choice. I promptly detagged, but part of me is hoping it was a bad angle. :(

Discuss your wake up call moments.  

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Lucy Elizabeth 10.27.12

Re: Wake up call

  • Mine was walking by a mirror at a store on Wednesday. I'd been thinking "oh, I put on a little weight, my clothes are a little tight, it happens to everyone..."

    Then I had that moment of "Hey, that girl's wearing the same shirt as me! *pause. look.* Oh my God. Is THAT what I look like now??!?!?!"

    No more denial. In fact, I'm trying to decide which "fun" book I'm going to start reading on the bicylce/treadmill today! 

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  • The scales.  I weigh at least several times a week...sometimes daily.  I think I'm going to start trying to eat clean and see how that works.  It's supposed to make you feel amazing too...and on top of that...exercise.
  • Mine was when I was getting dressed for work one morning and realized the pants would barely button and I had some muffin top going on.

    Luckily, I am no longer working around all that food (that I just HAD to taste). The day I quit was the day I started eating better. So far, so good. I can actually tell I have lost a little. I think it was a lot of bloat, but I really can tell a difference in just a week.

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  • I've had 3 in the past month.?

    1) Same thing as SBS, caught a glance of myself in the mirror at a store and saw that the pockets in my jeans were literally bursting out--so gross. I couldn't believe it was me.

    2) a picture my daughter took of me. I looked like a 400 lb swamp creature. Granted, she's 2.5 feet shorter than I am and it was a weird angle, but still. It was horrifying.

    3) I tried on this black wrap dress I've had for years. It actually fit better 5 WEEKS after I had my daughter than it did 2 weeks ago. Talk about depressing.?

  • Aww, all your stories are tragically funny, and I mean that in the nicest way. 

    I'm hoping that with a normal schedule I can get back on track with eating and maybe even gym time. Plus not having my azz glued to the couch for 18 hours a day will help.

     

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    Lucy Elizabeth 10.27.12
  • I'm going with the way my clothes fit. When I put jeans/pants on and then I have muffin top going on or my shirt is a little too tight...ewwwwwww. I also weigh myself weekly (same time/day). That gives me a good idea as well as to how I'm doing.
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  • I was just asked yesterday if I was pregnant.  When I said NO, the lady said that I "glowing" all the time.

    OK - Whatever!

  • Mine tends to be reaching a certain number on the scale.  Both times now the same number has snapped me out of it.  Getting close to needing yet another size bigger jeans helped too.
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    BFP#3 10.2.12 (EDD 6.12.13) MMC 11.24.12 @11.5w, had passed in 7th week
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  • For me, it's seeing myself in pictures.  I think you really get a good view of what others see of you, not like in a mirror where you can stand at the most flattering angle.

    The sad thing is, when that happened and I really turned things around, I lost like 40 pounds and I really felt great about myself, thought I looked great at the wedding and everything.  And...people still ask me if I am pregnant.  I am a size 8!  (even sometimes a 6).  That is re-god-dam-diculous.

  • I would definitely say how my clothes fit started it... buying pants in a size bigger than i normally buy (same store) and those being tight! Then the whole mirror thing... i notice my arms look fatter, i seem to have baked in the oven because i have a muffin top with my pants (maybe because they dont fit on top of getting fatter) and my legs look flabby with dresses on and i look like I painted mt old jeans on. To make matters worse I went shopping with one of my newer friends for the first time last week... she bought size ZERO jeans! (in the store i had to buy a size bigger than normal in) That makes me feel GREAT! haha so I am working on my next few weeks of school then trying to get to graduation so i will actually have time to work out... and not sit in a classroom an munch all day.
  • It's definitely the clothes. Going back to a real job meant busting out the wardrobe I hired a trainer to get me back into back in February.  I sit at work everyday with my pants so tight on my tummy I'm in pain.  I'm working out twice a week but I can't do cardio because I can't run and I don't have a gym membership.  But the tummy won't tuck itself away until I burn some calories!
    We have so much time, and so little to do! Strike that, reverse it.
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