Kansas Nesties
Dear Community,
Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Heading towards anullment or overreaction?
My husband and I dated for 12 years before marrying this past September. He is in a band and because of the way he handles things with it, it has been a point of contention between us for quite some time. We agree upon times for him to be home or to have his bandmates leave, yet, he comes home from practices and gigs whenever he feels like it, typically one to several hours later than agreed upon. This hurts my feelings, makes me worry about him and makes me feel as though I cannnot trust his word. We have also been trying to have a baby, which I desperately want(and he says he does), but it always seems like anything that has to do with his band takes precendence, even if it is the day that I'm ovulating or the day that I get my period and am devistated that another month has gone by with now success. I feel that I am an afterthought to him most of the time and worry about how he'll handle his responsibilities if we're ever blessed with children. We've gone to counseling, discussed the situation one-on-one until we're blue in the face, and things are stilll the same. Should I re-think my decision to be in a seemingly unfulfilling marriage or am I overreacting?!?