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He's gone.

My grandfather died at 11:00 last night.  I didn?t find out until about 8:00 this morning. His daughter, 2 granddaughters, sister, and my grandmother were all there with him, and he went peacefully.  After seeing him yesterday, it?s almost a relief.  He was just a shell of the man we knew.  I haven?t grieved very much yet, but mostly I grieve for my grandmother, who has now been widowed THREE times (he was technically my step-grandfather).  But I know she would do it all again the same if she could and has no regrets.  He?s being cremated, so the funeral won?t be for awhile.  My brother is a minister, and my grandmother want him to come down to officiate (he lives in Kentucky), plus a lot of family is traveling right now, and it?s important to her that they not cut their trips short.

I'd like to thank all of you for your kindness.  Your comments and emails have meant so much to me.  You ladies are the best!

Re: He's gone.

  • Jakie- im sorry.

    Just make sure to give your grandma tons of love!!

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  • I'm sorry Jacki.  Your grandmother and your family are in my prayers.  I lost my grandfather about a year ago and he looked a lot like how you described your grandfather.  At least he is no longer suffering and is at peace now.

    ((((hugs))))

  • Hey Love!

    I'm so sorry for your loss!  I am glad he went peacefully & lived a life filled with love!  You grandmother might have been widowed 3 times but remember she lived & loved and is taking chances and all you can do it look up to her for living her life. She may get hurt but I think she knows it's worth it!

    Let us know if you need anything or need a mini gtg to help you smile! 

    You & your family are in my thoughts & prayers!

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  • Jacki, I'm sorry to hear about your loss but it sounds like at least now he is in peace and no longer in pain. ?Please let me know if I can do anything for you. ?You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers!
  • So sorry for your loss.  But we all know that he's no longer suffering and in a better place.  My thoughts and prayers are with you.
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  • Jackie, I am so sorry!
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  • I'm sorry Jacki, he is in a better place.
  • I'm so sorry....hugs to you and your family.
  • I'm so sorry Jacki.

     

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    I'm so sorry, Jacki.  I'm glad to know that he went peacefully, though, and I know what you mean to think of it as almost a relief.  I will be thinking about your family, especially your grandmother.  She sounds like a very brave woman. 

    If there's anything we can do, please let us know.  You know I'm not working right now, so if you just need a distraction or just someone to hang out with, just message me.   

  • I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Just remember, now you have another angel with you! ;)

  • I'm so sorry Jackie. Big hugs!
  • Loads of hugs and thoughts. 
  • Sounds like it was for the best, but still never easy news to take in. Your granmda is lucky to have such a thoughtful granddaughter and a close loving family.

  • Jacki, I'm so sorry for your loss. I have you and your family in my thoughts and prayers. I'm happy that he went peacefully and is now watching over all of you. Should you need anything let me know :-)

     

    XOXOXOXOXOXO!

  • I'm sorry for your family's pain- it's never, ever easy to say good-bye to someone you love. But, it's wonderful that he passed with so much love around him.
  • I am so sorry for your loss.  Both my grandmothers passed away this year.
  • Thank you so much, you guys.  It means so much to me to have your thoughts and prayers.  I wrote in more detail on my blog, http://jackiwolfe.blogspot.com
  • Jacki, I'm sorry for your loss.  At least he is not in pain anymore and is in a better place.
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