FURIOUS

ldevietro

 this is semi long, arent they always?

IDK if I am overreacting but I am FURIOUS and about to rip off DH's head right now.

I just texted him and told him I was gonna go out to dinner with my mom and brothers tonight so I would be spending some $$ (we are trying to SAVE for baby, house, etc.) so we always run things by each other that have to do with finances obviously.

 WELL, he texted me and said that I could go (I WASNT ASKING, but thanks anyways!) because we got $100 last week that we got in a wedding card that was dropped off to his work by a friend. SOOO, we got a card, he took the money, didnt even tell me about it, didnt let me see the card, and here I am still mad that this said friend was a no-show (im still mad regardless of the money anyways) at our wedding but I would've felt a little better knowing about said card?!!.  SOOO..DH's excuse is that I can't be mad because even though he didnt tell me about it, he turned around the next day and gave me $400 for black friday shopping (for gifts for the kids, not like play money).  my point is, why the hell did he not tell me?

So, we're both at work so we're fighting through texting which is never a good idea..and I was like UHMMM, what else are you hiding? more money? extramaritial affairs, etc.? and he told me I am overracting. AM I? I AM PISSED!!!!!!!!

ldevietro

a side note: obviously I dont think he is hiding any affairs but i had to make a point, if he can hide that what else can he hide?

cashandrich

Ummm. It sounds like he just forgot to tell you. Unless I'm missing something.

cashandrich

But I do agree that if he told you, it would have helped keep you from stressing some about the no show friend thing.

ldevietro

After we talked more, I realized it was more of a forget thing rather than a hiding/lying thing.  I was def mad for like 10 minutes and jumped the gun I think but then relaxed a bit..he completely admitted that he should've told me but forgot then their was the holiday, etc etc..I do feel better.

ldevietro

P.S.(To any of the ladies sending me baby dust) : I tested today..not pg . I kinda already knew that was coming cause my temp dropped, boobs got sore, and I've had light cramping so I knew AF was on her way..I'm disappointed but I'll be fine. We'll keep on trying!

ldevietro

But I did excited cause AF was 2 days late..she was just playin' with me I guess..

cashandrich

ldevietro:

After we talked more, I realized it was more of a forget thing rather than a hiding/lying thing.  I was def mad for like 10 minutes and jumped the gun I think but then relaxed a bit..he completely admitted that he should've told me but forgot then their was the holiday, etc etc..I do feel better.

Good. I'm happy it ended well

Vikki2pay

Glad, it all worked out, I kinda figured he just forgot to tell you.