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DH is thinking of making an appoint at the bank to see about taking out a loan to pay off all of our credit cards. Once they are all payed off we will be cancelling all but I think two of them. We are trying to find some way to get out from under the debt that we both brought into this marriage. I'm thinking that this might be a good idea because we might actually start to see the light at the end of the tunnel. We will still have my school loan which has a low interest rate as well as the house payment. We would really like to build on to the house within the next five years so there is room for a family. I'm not sure if this is a good idea or not we would be making one payment instead of 6 or 7 minimum payments that aren't getting us anywhere. Any advice would be much appreciated.
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Re: Anyone have any advice?
I was always told to NEVER cancel a credit card - just cut it up and don't use it. It can actually damage your credit score to close it.
I agree with jlk0219, though, talk to a credit counselor. They are the experts.
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The problem with credit counselors/debt consolidation programs is that you get behind on your payments while they're negotiating with the companies. Your creditors will more than likely close out your account for you while you continue to pay on the outstanding balances. IT LOOKS WORSE ON YOUR CREDIT IF THE CREDITOR CLOSES IT OUT VS. YOU CLOSING IT OUT.
Either way, talk to several people and figure out what's best for you and your family.
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While these agencies can be helpful when people are in dire situations, if a credit counselling company is involved in fixing your credit, it will show up on and adversely affect your credit report. I think your original plan of having the bank pay off the debt you no longer want and then making just that payment, the mortgage payment, your student loan, and the one or two cards you decide to keep, is a sound and frugal one. You can close out whatever cards you want and it does not have a measurable affect on your score. In fact, it looks better if it says "closed by consumer", meaning you paid it off with your loan money. just be conservative in your spending and diligent about making payments on time (and even throw in an extra $20 on the payments here and there when you can) and it will be much more managable and go down faster. The quick fix is not always the right solution for everyone.
Oh, and I should mention that I had been in banking for over 10 years as a lending specialist and financial planner, so that's the basis for my info.
Good luck!
Thanks for your input everyone.
Kelnyc, we really want to do what will be in our best interest since we want to build an addition on to our house in the future and don't want to be restricted with what we can do because of a massive amount of debt. We also don't want to feel like we are constantly being buried. I know we will never be completely debt free but we would like to at least get to where we feel comfortable.
Well I think the fact that you're planning ahead and really taking a close look at things means you're on the right track. Just be patient. Debt doesn't disappear overnight, no matter which way you go about it. You can do it though!
Now go have a drink. It's happy hour!
It is worth talking to the bank. The only issue is whether you can get a loan that will carry a lower interest rate than what you are now paying.
If that does not work, you should definitely talk to a credit counseling company. There are a lot of shady ones. However, Money Management International is really good. Essentially, they are a nonprofit that works with the credit card companies to get you a debt management plan. You get lower interest rates, and make one payment to MMI, which MMI then disburses for you. However, you would have to give up all of your credit cards as part of the plan.
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