October 2009 Weddings
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Feeling torn...

So, when we got our wedding photo's back, I was excited and happy to get them, and didn't really think about this until recently when I started to make our album. Our photographers too wonderful photo's...however, they seemed to have had a preference for my Husbands family. Besides the formals, I have only one photo of my mom, and no candids of her sister and BIL, as well as her mom, my grandmother, who my photographer knew was important to me. I have 6 photo's of our first dance, 5 photo's of my dad and my's dance, one of which is the same photo in B/W, while there are 16 photo's of my husbands dance with his mom. There are only a handful of photo's of our guests, and all of them happen to be his dads family. However, there aren't any photo's of his mothers family - with the exception of a group shot, you wouldn't even know they were there - and they were the ones who helped decorate and everything! I have a page of photo's of our wedding cake, but none of our centerpieces. I'm a little hurt and while I know I can't change the past, I was wondering if I should bring it up to our photographer or if I should let sleeping dogs lie.

 

What do you think I should do? Did you guys have something similar happen?

Pregnancy%20ticker

Re: Feeling torn...

  • I agree with what the girls on Etiquette said to do....not much you can do at this point.  It's not like you can go back and re-take pics.  I felt like this with a lot of pics, like DH family was in them alot more then my family.  Not only that DH's mother looks like an idiot in all of them.  I was pi$$ed.  I would just utilize the pics you do have that you love and try to ignore the rest.
    imageBaby Birthday Ticker Ticker
  • Did you provide your photographer with a must take list? If not, you can't really complain. If you did, then I would say something, although at this point it won't really make a difference. I noticed with mine that there are tons of shots of me getting ready but not many of DH getting ready. When I looked back at my list, I didn't really mention many shots of him getting ready at all.
    BabyFetus Ticker
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