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happy hump day!
ok so for the past two hours I thought that today was Thursday:( on the bright side I'm not as behind on sending my Christmas cards out:)
any who, I am bored at work and the past week has been a little crazy for me. a while back I posted that I saw my BFFs (also my MOH) FI with another woman and I asked for y'alls advice on whether or not I should tell her. well, I did! after 3 days of thinking about it I told her. before I told her she said she left him a note saying it was over, so I said well I need to tell you, something about this last weekend. she was a little devastated but, had a quick recover and I've never seen her so happy. I am glad I said something, I couldn't see her getting hurt (emotionally) from that loser any more. oh yeah, turns out it was true he was cheating!
Thanks for everyones advice!!!
Re: happy hump day!
yikes! I missed your OP, but I am glad your friend left him and that she is happier now!
And I feel you, this week is dragging, for sure!
Good for you, Good for her.
Did I understand you correctly? She left him a note saying she was leaving him?
yes she left him a note saying they were over and she left her engagement ring with it. they fight allot. that day he was gone all day with his friends and didn't look for a job or file for unemployment like he said he would. she was pretty fed up with him and I think was trying to do the "get better or we are over" thing. so I felt like it was a good time to tell her what I saw. I explained it to her like I did on here... that I didn't see them doing any thing but my instinct knew what was going on. I was even crying on the phone when I told her. I felt so bad. it was really weird how I felt about the whole thing.