June 2009 Weddings
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Update: Advice

So, this weekend I told B about what D was planning on doing for Christmas for H. B, in no uncertain terms, told me he will NOT let me fall on my sword for this, and that if D decides to try to throw me under the bus, he'll back me up in the fact that I didn't/don't support this idea from the beginning.

I feel a lot better.  I still have an urge to tell H, but I need to let D make his own mistakes, regardless of my friendships with the 2 of them. It's just hard watching someone fall directly onto their face. But, it's not my choice, and he's a grownup, so... Here's to no broken noses.

*cheers*

Thanks for everyone's advice!

I'm friends with everybody in this office. We're all best friends - I love everybody here. But sometimes your best friends start coming into work late, and start having dentist appointments that aren't dentist appointments. And that's when it is nice to let them know that you can beat them up.

Re: Update: Advice

  • I didn't respond to your previous post as I thought everyone did a nice job giving advice...there really wasn't much more to add.  I did keep thinking how can D even call you a friend if he was pretty much going to force you to take the blame if it went badly.  Glad everything worked out.
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