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I am in BIL's wedding in March. We just went yesterday to look at dresses. They will be in 4 weeks before the wedding. The dress is black and the bride doesn't know if she wants us to wear silver shoes bc black shoes would be too much black.
I guess the planner in me is beyond annoyed by all the last minute decisions and rushing around.
I found a pair of shoes I love that are comfortable and on sale but now I can't buy them bc idk what FSIL is going to want.
Re: Can I vent?
I understand it's her day but she obviously isn't that worried about it seeing as she didn't even ask or give her opinion she just let her sister and the other bridesmaid pick the bmaid dress.
Honestly I don't want to be in the wedding but I figured if I said no it would start a mess with the IL's.
I understand. That's another reason I didn't want to be involved with this wedding. It took me months to find shoes that half way fit and I liked for my sisters wedding and I find some that are very comfortable and I hate to miss out on them.