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Engagement party help

My BFF is coming home for the holiday and has recently become engaged (she lives 12 hours away). Her mother and I will be throwing an engagement party for her. Any tips, tricks, dos, don'ts?  Do you do favors for the guests? Do you do themes? I've never been to or had an engagement party, so I know nothing in this department.THANKS!!

Re: Engagement party help

  • Most engagement parties I've been to have just been simple gatherings.

    We didn't have any decorations or favors, just food and drinks.

    How many people are you expecting?

     

  • All the engagement parties I have been to have been regular cocktail-style parties.  I would serve h'ors d'oeuvres and drinks (beer, wine, champagne, maybe a signature martini) and let people just mingle and congratulate the couple.

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    All the engagement parties I have been to have been regular cocktail-style parties.  I would serve h'ors d'oeuvres and drinks (beer, wine, champagne, maybe a signature martini) and let people just mingle and congratulate the couple.

    This.

    No favors, no themes, no games.

  • Definitely no games or themes. When we were married our mothers threw us a nice party. It was just food, drinks and friends. The most "theme" it had was the pink napkins and icing on the cake my MIL got. LOL. Let people just enjoy themselves.
  • The only decor/theme type of thing you could do is something simple like decorating with pears and use green as an accent color.  This would make it easy to go with some of your holiday decor you probably already have out.
    Other than that, just like the other posters have said.  I've only been to 1 e-party that the couple won from a bar. 
  • The only theme-like thing that I would suggest is color(s).    Maybe 1 or 2 vases with inexpensive flowers.  Say you get white flowers, so go with white cups, white napkins, white plates, etc.  Nothing fancy, but just to help unify the look.

    For my e-party, the hosts went with black and red.  No theme related banners or things were used.  But the tablecloths happened to be black and there were some red roses in small vases on the tables.  Also, our cake was chocolate with strawberries on top, so it "matched."  See what I mean?  No theme, but there was continuity.

  • My husand and I actually got engaged in Tuscany and our engagement party had an Italian theme.  While I agree with PPs that it's not necessary, if something really jumps out at you then roll with it.
  • Thanks ladies, for all your help. I am glad that it is MUCH more simple than I had imagined! whew!

    Happy holidays!

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