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hi ladies (prayers needed)
i'm sorry i've been mia here. it's been super busy with the holidays, oh and being sick and all. 
my boys were sick and now i'm sick. just miserable!
i hope everyone has been enjoying the holidays.
if any of you remember my friend that i brought to the GTG with me back in August, she could really use some prayers. she was pregnant and just lost her baby at 20-something weeks. my heart is just aching for her and all i can do is tell her that i'm there for her, but i don't have the right words to tell her how sorry i am. i text her this morning and wanted to say "how are you?" but i just kept deleting it because i know how she is... kwim?
so i just said "i'm thinking of you.. hugs" she just needs some prayers to stay strong. thanks ladies!
Re: hi ladies (prayers needed)
I'm so sorry Nia. =(
(((HUGS)))
Thoughts and prayers to your friend.
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I am so sorry to hear that. Having just gone through this with my good friend who lost her twins at 26 weeks, I know how heartbreaking it is. It's also so hard to know what to say cause nothing seems adequate. What I can tell you from my talks with her is this, there really isn't much that you can say to make it better but just let her know you love her and are there for her. When she's ready take her out for lunch or to do things just to get her out. If there's a project she's been wanting to do that you can help her with that will be good. I just spent the last two days helping my friend paint her kitchen and she said it was really good to have something to feel productive.
My friend's biggest pet peeve was acting like the twins never existed so she didn't like it when people ignored it or didn't want to talk about it. Her biggest fear is that the twins will be forgotten. She hates it when people use the terms "at least," like "at least they aren't suffering."
I hope your friend is able to find peace, but it will probably take time.
oh my gosh....how sad! Do they know why she lost the baby?
She is def. in my thoughts and prayers and she will appreciate you being there for her, no matter what.
I can't even imagine having to go through that.....