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All advice appreciated

ok so my wife and i want to be prego by June. I am planning to carry her egg. Does anyone have advice? Personal experience? I just want to know what to expect...lol

Re: All advice appreciated

  • I don't have personal experience but have friends who are trying this method.  Here's what I know from them:  the person supplying the egg has to have an FSH test, a thyroid test, and an STD test and she will need to be on birth control pills for a short time to sync up cycles with the person carrying the baby.  The person carrying has tests done on her uterus including a practice insertion and also goes on the Pill for syncing, plus the STD tests too.  The cost is about 20K for the whole process. Again, this is just what the costs and tests are in Wisconsin; they may be different for you.  Hope this helps and best of luck!
  • Well, my first piece of advice is not to set dates or goals for when to concieve by.  On average, it can take a healthy woman up to 6 months to get pregnant - of course it can be much shorter for some women and longer for others.  There is simply no way to predict at the onset how long it will take, so having a goal in your head such as "by June" might be setting yourself up for some heartbreak. 

    Next, you'll want to call your insurance company(ies) and see if what, if anything, will be covered.  Have you found an RE in your area? They should be able to give you a list of the procedure codes you'll be billed for the meds, monitoring, and egg retrival adn transfer that you'll need to have one partner carry the other's egg.  

    Then there's the question of the sperm...have you discussed using a known or unknown donor? 

    I think your best bet will be to pop on over to the LGBT Parenting board - browse some of the threads there to find more info and book suggestions. 

    Best of luck to you - there are many ladies on this board who have been through the process!

  • If you want to read about someone's experience, Dana @ Mombian has written about hers: http://www.mombian.com/2008/04/14/injections-eggs-and-attorneys-how-we-conceived/
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