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How would you react?
If you found out your H googles nekkid women on the interwebs?
http://community.thenest.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/29677537.aspx
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Re: How would you react?
Crap...I Mean Crafts
my beef w/ this isn't w/ the objection to nudie pics (you're allowed to object) it's with the damn ASSUMPTIONS.
If you don't want your man looking at pics, then discuss it with him. Come up with guidelines (although I cringe becuas 90% of the time, this becomes one person laying out rules for both of them to follow). But it's pointless to have a rule, never discuss it, and be pissed after the fact.
I didn't click the link, but: "Found out" implies that he's been hiding this from me, that he thinks that this is deviant or undesirable behavior. Or that I think it is. And that's not the case in our house - never has been.
He's got someone's breasts on his phone desktop right now. Fine with me: I have Daniel Craig holding a big gun. If neither of us is allowed to fantasize in the way most effective for us, then neither of us can bring that sexy spark to bed. And that? would be boring, at least in my house.
GBCK has the right of it: you're allowed to object (I don't get it, but hey, you don't have to float my boat) as long as you're open about your objections, and everyone agrees to the rules.
"Of course, as soon as I could I did the exact same search in my iPhone. She's a very thin, very busty brunette. I am a very busty brunette who is not very thin. In fact, I'm overweight for my height. And yes, I'm very unhappy about it."
Yeah, I think this is all about the OP and her body image/self-esteem, not so much her DH.
^this