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Back from the doctor

For those of you who are on FB, this is a recap.

Last week I had severe swelling, water retention, pitting edema coupled with a migraine.  I went in, my BP was ok, so she ordered some blood work and gave me water pills. 

Her assistant called me last night, said the test results were in, and Kim needed to see me in person.  Always a good sign.  I had an appointment for 2/2, she said no, you need to come in immediately. 

So I went in this morning.  Knew it wasn't a good sign when she had the lead doc confer with her, and they sat down next to me and handed me a box of Kleenex.

My liver enzymes have gone from 7 (low) in September to over 200 (over 3 times the normal range).  The lymph node they've been watching in my neck has not responded to antibiotics, and apparently they found another huge lymph node when they took out my gallbladder - the surgeon just removed it.  This, combined with the swelling leads her to think I have Lymphoma.

I have to go get a CT scan tomorrow and meet with the surgeon on Friday.  They're going to remove the node in my neck and biopsy it.  Right now, I need to calm down enough to drive over to the hospital and pick up the contrast I need to drink tomorrow, and get back to work at some point in theory.  I am freaking out.  Redneck just said "Don't get shook about it until you know for sure."  Yeah, um, thanks.  I'll do my best.

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  • Left HugRight Hug  Thinking of you and praying for you.
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  • Oh my goodness.  All my thoughts and prayers will be with you.  I know nothing about Lymphoma so I'm not even going to pretend I have any advice.  We'll all be here for you.
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  • Oh no Wendi!

    I hope that this was caught in the early stages and will be easily treated and you will be back up and running in no time!

    We are here for you. Thoughts and Prayers your way lady!

  • Thoughts, prayers - stay strong. Were all thinking of you.
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  • I already responded on fb, but I'll repeat myself here, BIIIIIG gigantic hugs to you my love!  Tons and tons of vibes, prayers and good thoughts your way.  You are a strong woman and will make it through this!
  • Tons of thoughts and prayers to a very strong woman! I hope they caught it early and can nip it in the bud or treat it long-term.
  • Lots of prayers coming your way for healing & strength
  • I've talked with you about this and you know where I stand....I mean every word.  All of my prayers, thoughts, and hugs are sent your way.....
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    And all of my vibes. 

  • Hoping and praying that this is totally treatable and manageable. We're here for you!
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  • Wendi, I don't even know what to say. Know that we are all here for you, whatever you need!! Please KUP and let me know if there's anything at all you need! Hang in there sweetie, like Sheri said... You are a strong woman and you WILL get through this!! Lots of ::hugs:: prayers & thoughts are being sent your way!!
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  • Tons of T&P headed to you and your family!!

    My daddy had Lymphoma in '93 and told he wouldn't see Christmas of that year. BUT... he has been cancer free now for 17 years.

    They have come a long way since then with the treatment for Lymphoma
    (I know this because I did a speech on it in college, tons of research)

    But I have to say I agree with "redneck" try and relax untill you know for sure.

    You are in my T&P sweety!!!

  • TONS of T&P to you and the family!!!  Definitely think postive on this! This may be why you have been 'out of wack' lately? 

    Wendi-is this the Non-Hodgkin's version? BM had it and had one round of chemo? and it went away.  She's been 'free' for 4 or so years, I believe. 

    You are definitely in my prayers!  Please KUP! 

  • Stay strong!  Sending lots of healthy vibes and prayers your way.  From what I gather on the interwebz, you seem to be an amazing woman!
  • As hard as it may seem, stay strong, healthy, and positive.  Sending tons of T&P and big, big hugs your way, Wendi!  Please keep us posted, we're here for you whenever you need us. 
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  • Sending support and strength vibes from California, Wendi! If it's too hard to talk about with your family, you have us all here, your extended Novembie family. You're in my prayers too! Think positive :)

  • Hugs, thoughts and prayers to you and your family, Wendi.  <3
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  • I can only imagine how scared you must be... all my love, thoughts and prayers your way.

  • Thanks to all of you.  I just got a call from a girl I went to HS with - she got my # off FB.  I'm so grateful to know I have so much support and love out there.  You all will never know just how much you mean to me.
  • Oh, honey! Big, big hugs and Ts&Ps to you! I know there isn't much else we can do from where we all are, but if there is, please let us know!
  • Oh, I'm sorry you're going through this!! I'm hoping for the best for you.
  • I'm so sorry you're in the middle of this, Wendi!! I'll be thinking of you, and I hope they give you more answers and a course of action soon. All my T&Ps and vibes going your way, love!! Big hugs!
  • Hang in there!  I'm sending lots of positive healthy vibes your way.  Good luck with the CT scan tomorrow.  I'm hoping you get the most positive news possible!

    Also, it's okay to be nervous and scared.  If you need anything, we're here for you.

  • You are definitely in my thoughts and prayers.

  • Tons of T&P and vibes and hugs all going your way!  Know that we are all behind you and support you!
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  • Oh Wendi . . . hugs to you right now! 

  • Big hug to you my friend!  Keep your spirits up as much as possible!  You've got your novembies at your back!!!
  • Oh hun!  I know I'm late on this but first off HUGE HUGS to you.  Second I think Redneck was just trying to stay strong for you.  I'm sure he is just as scared as you are.  THE HUGEST AMOUNT of thoughts and prayers coming your way. 
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  • Hugs, prayers and positive thoughts to you!!! Your husband does try to support you and maybe he is even right in his advice. Stay strong and you will win, especially with all the modern technologies that American hospitals have. Lots of thoughts and hugs to you!!
  • Lots of love to you Wendi. All the best to you and your family. I hope the doctor's find a solution soon!
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