Oh how I hope this is MUD.. or do I?

LadyGolfer523

http://community.thenest.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/29798308.aspx

He's 23, she's 40. 

LadyGolfer523

Never mind she DD.  She was 40, he was 23 and she wanted approval to have a kid with him.  She has kids in there 20's and has 2 grandkids....

ReturnOfKuus

I think we have one of those weird relationships on here too...

zsazsa-stl

Thanks, Kuus.  Love you, too.

pegasuskat

She had another post to that she had DD. It was asking if it was normal that her H doesn't usually *** when they have sex. She wanted to know if she should be worried that he wasn't really enjoying it.

ReturnOfKuus

Well, it IS weird.  You've admitted it yourself.

baconsmom

I dunno - I think Zsa's relationship is considerably less weird, just based on the gender reversal. I mean, it's been a thousands-years-long tradition that older men - who have money and security - marry younger women, who have fertility. But it's not a tradition that older women marry younger men, and considering how young many men in their 20s act, I wonder why a 40-y-o woman would even be attracted to one.

But then, I like the older guys, too - my H, who's only about 2 years older than I am, looks easily 10 or 15, and I love that. And yes, part of what attracted me to him was that he was very much more settled and responsible than I was. I don't really get the attraction to wild, immature guys.

zsazsa-stl

pegasuskat:

She had another post to that she had DD. It was asking if it was normal that her H doesn't usually *** when they have sex. She wanted to know if she should be worried that he wasn't really enjoying it.

 I love that people think they should ask random stranger the answer to these questions rather than their s/o.  I wonder if he is on anti-depressants - they make "completion" difficult for a lot of people.

zsazsa-stl

ReturnOfKuus:

Well, it IS weird.  You've admitted it yourself.

I know.  I just like to think that I am less weird because I wasn't 23 and asking internet strangers if I should go through with it or not.

ReturnOfKuus

Certainly less weird, which is why you don't get flamed, but I did think it was fair to caution the OP that comments on large age differences might not be well-received here.

pegasuskat

She said she did ask him, and that he told her he was just "blocking" his pleasure out so he could go longer. Someone told her he was probably pleasing himself too much and was making him unsensitive during sex. I wish it wasn't dd I wanted to go back and read her response.

baconsmom

It could actually be "delayed ejaculation". I heard about it on Loveline - Dr. Drew explained it as a guy taking a really long time to finish, and sometimes not being able to at all.

But that's assuming he likes banging a 40-y-o broad.