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omfg!!!!! wtf dh!
so im having a spa party tomorrow and im TRYING to get the place house guest ready.... cleaning the boys rooms which every day they destroy, trying to pick up the living room, trying to get dh to put the boxes and boxes and boxes of his crap in the attic, tyring to get him to also put the boys clothes that they wont ever fit into again in the attic for the past 2 mos already.... whats he doing???? sitting on his ass on the couch adn letting me do it all.... when i say hey, want to do this i get the famous, "hun, i will but im tired" remark. what the fark! i know youre tired, i knwo you work 2 farking jobs but guess what honey so do i! yes, you may think my job is whatever and frufru... but let me tell you it pays for all the kids stuff the need like um, food and diapers and clothes...... and ontop of that i work the MOM job, where i dont ever get a break. ever. i want to go someheere i have the boys with me.... you want to go out, you just go. must be nice to havce the few mins to yourself because i so dont know what the eff thats like anymore, im not complaining about being a mom, im just saying im tired too. i work too, but i dont ever get to just sit on my ass and relax. maybe im jealous. maybe im pissed that i can no longer bend at the waist because im 3 farking months pg.... and chasing the boys around and trying to clean and then make then breakfast, lunch and dinner and i have to go shopping with them today to get what we need for the party tomorrow, i have to go to my moms to help her with her website today. ontop of all this....
and the thing that just sent me over the edge and made me "have to pee yet again" althouh i really did.... *that is how im taking a 5 min break and have locked the bedroom door and am able to type this out* is he goes, make sure that you are able to pick up the bed room too.....
i am not a farking maid!!!!!!!!!!!! i dont know what the eff he thinks because i am so NOT domesticated.... im getting there, but i am no ones maid! *maybe the boys* but if he thinks im his maid then he needs to go back home to mommy where she was his maid.
ugh! im just so frustrated!!!! its like he thinks i dont work or i dont know. but i wish he would have th eboys by himself for just 24 hours straight. he will go nuts! i have the terrible 2s starting and then another curious george.....
thanks for letting me vent. i really am just pissed and i needed to get this out before i 1. threw somethig at him or 2. screamed my effing head off at him and then bawled my eyes out infront of him..... ugh!
Re: omfg!!!!! wtf dh!
#2 sounds like a perfectly reasonable thing for you to do under the circumstances! Don't bottle this stuff up inside, Kim.......you have a point and he should know that!
What a bonehead our DHs can be, huh??? Isn't it nuts how we can love them SOOO much one minute, and then completely dispise their actions the next? I'm sorry he was acting like that, I'm sure if he truly realized how much he was hurting and aggravating you, his actions might be a bit different. I hope things are better today between the two of you, and please vent here anytime you want or need. **HUGS**
PS - hope you also have a great spa party
i know i am late.. U know you are handling it so much better then i would have. Because i am like the biggest jerk in the world, when i am doing something cleaning or whatever getting everything all set up and the hubby is sitting on his butt watching tv or what not . I will go into the living room and unplug the tv and take it out. If hes on the comptuer i will unplug the brain. Thats all :-)
If you really want to hear the stories of how i was when i was pregnant and you could use tons of laugh buzz me i will promise that you will be on the floor laughing your effing ass off!!
I hope today went good for you xoxoxo