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irritated
I had a great 2nd interview 2.5 weeks ago - I was told a decision would be made the following week (so that would've been two weeks ago). I sent out a thank you email immediately when I got home and a follow up email a week later, didn't receive a response. she finally got back to me on sunday with this:
I didn?t forget about you. I am sorry it?s been a bit of time, I have been swamped with some other things that have taken a great deal of my personal time. If you are around tomorrow, I would like to speak with you on the phone.
I wrote back saying I was available all day on monday, call me when you have time, blah blah. it's fvcking wednesday. I want to call but I don't want to push it if she's going through personalshit.
someone needs to talk me off of the ledge.
Re: irritated
I'd call....but that's just me. Sorry, I'm no help.
if I didn't get the job, fine. just tell me so I can move on - the unknown is killing me.
::creeping closer to the edge::
MH ended up waiting 2.5 months after his first interview to find out about his job.
I'm trying to remind myself my first big-girl job took for.ever. for me to find out.
patience is so not my virtue.
I would call. I'm impatient like that.
A firm did this to me for almost 3 months, I get your frustration. It SUCKS.
But I'm really hoping you land it!
but what if her "personal matter" is someone in her family died? I know, I'm being so OA and morbid, but it's not impossible.
I'm totally chickenshit, too.
That would suck. But you could come across really nice over the phone and even be super sweet about it, sympathetic. She might appreciate that if she truly did have something tragic happen.
Call!
I hope she calls you this afternoon.
After 2 rounds of IVF & 2 rounds of FET, we were blessed with identical twin girls!
or really annoying.
btw, she hasn't called me back.
I would be pretty pissed off too. Sorry stinka. Hope she calls TODAY.
it's all good, I've mentally prepared myself she's not going to call. the good thing is I have another contract job starting in a few weeks so no skin off of my nose.
it just would have been nice to have a permanent job. ;(