Grr DH

TeamRivera08

I have literally had a splitting headache all day, on the verge of turning into a full-on migraine. While DH was nice enough to stay fairly quiet and even turned the volume down on the TV, apparently b/c we planned to have cajun chicken (cajun blackening seasoning and everglades heat = delish), I had to cook it. Granted the smell/smokiness from the spices tend to get us both going (runny nose/cough)...why the eff can't you get up and cook dinner. Our convo:

Me: I'm hungry (read starving).

DH: Eh, I'm so-so. We can start cooking b/c the rice takes longer.

Me: We're having the cajun chicken salad.

DH: oh yeah! So cook whenever you feel like it.

Me: Can you do it? I think you should learn how to do it too.

DH: I already know how to do enough around here.

GRRR!!!! Needless to say I got up abruptly cooked dinner, and sat down with my dinner before telling him I was eating. WTF - I've had a horrible headache all day, while you got to sit at home 'on call' playing DS and tinkering on the computer (he's a computer tech). And I cooked last night. Men sometimes.

I know, its uber long, and soooooo not a big deal, but I'm hormonal, tired and in pain. My patience is a tad bit short today.

loregopar

TeamRivera08:

DH: I already know how to do enough around here.

Yikes!! That's ALWAYS the wrong answer. WTF?

I say kick in the butt.

I hope you feel better soon!!

ilovedesi

Wow, I can't believe he had the nerve to say that to you.  I would not have cooked dinner after that comment for a whole week!

LorelaiOctoberBride

OMG- now THAT would make me do... um, nothing... no food, no nada, no zip...

Wow... That comment just svcks!  And I'd prob punch him in the arm and tell him he's an a$$.

Hope you are feeling better!!!

Rachel2315

This deserves at least the threat of a junk punch

wendilea

I would have gone to Dairy Queen, bought a hot fudge sundae, and gone to bed.  He could cook whatever the eff he wanted.  hah

TeamRivera08

I wouldn't have cooked except for the fact that I was starving and I was too tired and in too much pain to argue. Finally took an excedrin (had taken 3 aleve thoughout the day), and the excedrin seems to be doing the trick. Now he's wondering why I'm snapping at him/not talking much. Dude, you're lucky I'm too tired to argue and I love you - b/c you would be on your own for dinner and doing the dishes.

veruca5839

wendilea:

I would have gone to Dairy Queen, bought a hot fudge sundae, and gone to bed.  He could cook whatever the eff he wanted.  hah

This!

Seriously, I can't believe he said that to you.  WTH?!?  That's never a good answer to anything.  Ugh.  I hope he apologizes for that one.

jweat013

wendilea:

I would have gone to Dairy Queen, bought a hot fudge sundae, and gone to bed.  He could cook whatever the eff he wanted.  hah

AMEN!