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Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Nicole I have a personal ?
I can email if you wouldn't want to answer here.
That is if you would want to answer at all.:)
Re: Nicole I have a personal ?
Ask away, Ms. Nola.
Ok. Thanks.
I guess I was surprised with your BC post. I not sure why, but I guess I would have thought that area wouldn't be as active.
I'm sure marital issues affect a couples sex life in different ways. I know that's sometimes the first thing to go, you know.
Please tell me to mind my own business if you want.
if i am being honest, i was wondering the same thing.
but then i just thought, even in dating couples, you can still have an active sex life even during the time you may be starting the breakup process.
For a long while it was dead. Like deader than roadkill dead. But as you work on your marriage, your sex life is something you have to work on, too. As you open up emotionally and reconnect, the sex life springs back into action.
::shrug::
I also don't think sex should be a weapon or withheld for any reason. We weren't having sex b/c we weren't happy with each other, not b/c I was seeking revenge or teaching him a lesson by not putting out. I didn't feel connected (and neither did he), but now that we're beginning to be happier with each other, we invite each other to our pants parties.
Divorce is still a very real discussion for us b/c we were so barely hanging on the edge, but it's something on the other side of the room now.
Nicole, I can understand that.
I'm glad divorce is not in the room, but maybe it needs to move outside of the house.:)
We're working on that, NOLA.