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Dear Community,
Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Nicole, I have a personal ?, too
NOLA's rules apply here, too--you can tell me to butt out and STFU and I won't get all butt hurt, I'll just click back over to 6-12.
Are you still in counseling, and if so, do you think it's helping? Were you having problems pre-baby?
I'm being nosy because our counselor said that a shocking number of couples show up in her office within months of having a baby.
Re: Nicole, I have a personal ?, too
Our counselor said that she sees a lot of couples with kids get divorced when the kids are teens - because of problems that existed pre-baby. The couple was just so focused on raising the kid or staying together for the kid that they didn't take the time/make the effort to work their issues out.
She said the #1 thing to figure out is: do really i want to be in a relationship/marriage/etc. with the other person. If the answer is yes - the next question is how far am i willing/do i need to go to make that happen?