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Dear Community,
Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Also in keeping with the theme (confession)
I had a short-lived affair with a married man when I was 20.
He was anasshole, but it was literally right after I left exH and I was starved for attention. I later apologized to the wife, who, as it turns out, knew about and supported the affair, since they apparently had an open relationship.
Re: Also in keeping with the theme (confession)
Yea, I know. I had a come-to-jesus with myself shortly after it started. It was the lowest point in my life. I was sure I was this horrible person before the affair started, for leaving xH. He was calling me constantly and laying on the guilt, this guy offered up... um... well his physical side, and I went for it. It only went on for a few weeks, before I stopped, went to his house and told his wife, who I was pretty sure was going to beat me up, but she just laughed and explained the situation, but thanked me for being honest, and I never spoke to him again.
The only 2 IRL people I have ever told are Mom and FI. I still harbor guilt for it, and when we initially talked about dating I laid ALL my cards on the table to let him decide if I was someone he wanted to be with. It's not like I share that tidbit with anybody, and even though we were bff I hadn't shared it with him.
Mom didn't pass judgement, either. She just told me she's glad I ended it, because the situation can get really complicated, no matter what they say.