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my affair confession
Has previously been revealed here, but since it's the theme of the day...
When I was 21, I was the other woman. The man? My boss.
Not my most shining moment, but a good learning experience.
As far as I know, he's still married.
Re: my affair confession
I , uh, have more or less a story I can sum up the same way.
To be fair, I kept trying to end things w/o loosing my dream job...whichI eventually failed at.
And they were separated for most of this.
And I was pretty damn niave. (we weren't sleeping together but it was somewhat physical...which is only problematic because 1-I wa still somewhat 'on-again' w/ onagain/off again ex-assferrett and 2-I didn't and still don't find the man attractive. I just lacked the spine to tell him to himself.
1. Did wife ever find out?
2. Who decided to end it?
Yes, I remember you and HE talking about this.
As far as i know, wife never found out. He's the one who decided to end it, though I certainly knew it would end eventually.
And I don't really remember how it started. I know there was always an electric attraction between us - very weird. Before I was even hired, he touched my shoulder once (innocently, to direct me through a hallway or something), and I literally jumped.
I think it evolved naturally, with glances, then flirting. I don't even remember the circumstances of his first visit to my place. The whole thing only lasted maybe 6 months.
DG = dirty bird.
So do you think you were the only, or one of many? Or do you know?
I know he'd had at least one other affair, but I do believe it was a serial monogamy (OK, he was probably still sexing the wife) kind of thing vs. boinking everything that moved.
It was a relationship, not just sex. And, maybe I'm naive, but I believe that was true for him, too. Though at 21 I had a pretty smokin hot, tight, bod.
Well, it's good to see your self esteem is in order.
LOL
Yea, I don't think all people that cheat cheat with every vagina/penis that comes within 100 yards. Some do (like the guy I was with) but some don't.