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need advice: fix my car or say goodbye?
Hi nesties... I need help with this decision, and Sylvia is in the hospital and I don't want to worry her with this.
This morning my car quit running on the way in to work I had it towed to the repair shop she likes (the dealer) and just got the estimate. It needs $1700 of work to get it running again.
It is a 1994 Toyota Camry, with 205k miles on it. We've been putting quite a bit in to keeping her running (about $2k every 6 months or so), and I am wondering if we should continue that, and do this fix, or stop at this point.
FWIW it IS the car we usually drive, but we do have a van (20 mpg) that we *can* use when need be (I wouldn't commute in it, though). We can take public transit to work, so I suppose having a car isn't 100% critical (just makes our commuting time 1 hr instead of 3.5 hrs).
So:
a) fix the car
b) tow it home (AAA will cover it) and wait for S to get out of the hospital and then decide at that point
c) say goodbye
d) some other option I haven't thought of yet?
Thanks for your help. I have so much on my mind (S's health, job stuff, leaky roof, no AC...) that I'm finding it hard to think my way through this. :-(
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Re: need advice: fix my car or say goodbye?
It sounds like it's not work keeping. 2k every 6 months is a LOT to spend on a car that is that old.
$1700 is either a great down payment on a much much newer car, or just about enough to get you something comparable that's in better shape.
That being said, I might suggest B so that you get to discuss it with Sylvia.
Good luck with everything.
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I think option b sounds like a good one. Maybe get a cheap rental or a zip car to avoid the 3.5 hour commute in the meantime? Regardless, I hope life gets easier very soon. Sounds like you have a lot on your plate. Get well wishes to S!