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Dear Community,

Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.

If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.

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Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.

No names, but I need to vent about a situation on this board.

I understand this is a public board, however, this board should also be a safe place for us to be able to share things about ourselves. Whether we decide to vent, share our happiest moments, or just post random thoughts it's a place that we can post to share things with other girls we've come to share common interest with and to a certain extent TRUST. I know it's a public forum, and that there are plenty of lurkers, but there should be some forum ettiquette.

It's wrong to exploit someone's post, and share it with other people who have no involvement with the nest!!

I do not regret saying anything I have said. So with that said, if you have a personal issue with me, tell ME.  

Re: No names, but I need to vent about a situation on this board.

  • Tongue Tied Sorry that drama is following you! I hate when people act like that

    I think you're fab though :)

  • Hey, I'm lost. What happened? Is everything ok?

    The thing I like most about this board is that it's pretty drama-free, let's keep it that way, ladies. :)

     

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  • I agree with you Joanna, although this is a public forum, we have a circle of trust with each and everyone of you girls.  If I was to think people were going to go back and repeat things that I have posted here to people they may also know, I would not post certain things about myself.  Remeber girls that this is a drama free board, so if you are here for drama go back to the knot for that.  Just my two cents!
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  • Indifferent

    I have been in your situation plenty of times and it is so, so annoying. It sucks, but yes, this is a public board and you never know who is reading what you're posting or what people are going to do with the information you put out there.

    I'm sorry someone betrayed your trust, Johanna. I'd like to feel like none of the regulars on this board would be that childish and hope it was a lurker who did this to you.

    We have a circle of trust, girls! I really appreciate being able to vent on here, and being able to be honest and open is something we should all be able to do without fear of having our posts shown to someone who is not within this group.  


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  • Thank you girls for understanding. This situation really has me very bothered, and I just needed to vent. I wish I could say that the person who did this was a lurker, but it wasn't. There is a circle of trust, and it's a terrible feeling when it feels that that trust has been violated.

    I will still continue posting, and stay active, I refuse to allow one bad apple to change that. 

    Thank you for hearing me out. You girls totally understand me. You all rock!!

  • I don't know what you're referring to, but I'm sorry your feelings were hurt.

    However, I've seen some people post things here that I would never ever post on a public internet forum. I read the last post you made a week-ish or so ago, and saw some pretty (in my opinion) inappropriate things about a former employer of yours. Keep in mind that your photos are on here, so if anyone happens to come across your picture, plus the things your posting, it's not tough to put two-and-two together as to who you're talking about.

    I go by the rule that if I don't want the entire world knowing it, I won't post it here. All these posts can be found through google, by name, date, content, etc. I've seen too many people get burned by things they post here that come back to haunt them. 

  • So sorry to hear that you were put in this situation.
  • I'm so sorry you're being put through this. But I agree with PP .. you are Fab!! xoxoxo
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    I don't know what you're referring to, but I'm sorry your feelings were hurt.

    However, I've seen some people post things here that I would never ever post on a public internet forum. I read the last post you made a week-ish or so ago, and saw some pretty (in my opinion) inappropriate things about a former employer of yours. Keep in mind that your photos are on here, so if anyone happens to come across your picture, plus the things your posting, it's not tough to put two-and-two together as to who you're talking about.

    I go by the rule that if I don't want the entire world knowing it, I won't post it here. All these posts can be found through google, by name, date, content, etc. I've seen too many people get burned by things they post here that come back to haunt them. 

    I pop on here from time to time, and I agree with Angie. On top of that, you also named the company you are interviewing with for an internship. Whether you realize it or not, companies google themselves all the time to see what is being said.I have seen job offers rescinded because of things that potential employees post on chat rooms, facebook, myspace, etc. This is the internet and this board isn't private. I'm sorry someone upset you, but you need to be smart about what you post.

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