Butt secks fans...

nofksgvn

I'm just wondering, how does one get past the "feeling like you have to poo" feeling? We've kinda tried it, but that feeling is no good and I can't get in to it...

pedantic_wench

I've never gotten past that part, unfortunately.

sawwasmif

The difference for me this time was that he went down on me for a long time before we tried anything.  I had a few great orgasms, and then after that he slipped a toy up there while he was still going down on me.

After I had another orgasm we took our time replacing the toy with him.  Slow and steady after getting me really hot and relaxed seemed to work,

emmypants

Relax.  As simple as it sounds, just relax.  Thats what has helped me.  I hope it works for you, it's awesome

candaceleigh21

The relaxation advice is the best...that poo feeling comes from your body trying to expel the "foreign"object so if you can really relax then that should subside

ashleym909

LOTS of lube on you and him! you have to really relax, you'll probably are going to have a burning feeling though..just relax and maybe watch some porn GL

chewychigozie

I have never tried! I know my DH wants to! But i heard it hurts and im a little scared to try it! 

sawwasmif

Don't do it if you really don't want to...the more scared you are the harder it will be to relax and enjoy it.  Do you like any butt play at all?  Maybe start with that and see what happens. 

goomansgirl

Try some clittoral stimulation at the same time. It really helps. And don't forget lots of lube.

alwayskristi

We haven't been all that successful either although not for a lack of trying! That feeling is the worst! One of the times we did get into it I was drunk which made me super relaxed and not worried or self conscious at all. The other time we tried a few different positions. For me being on my back seems to have less resistance. On my knees it feels a lot worse. Way more pressure. You can actually search online for tips on making it work. Obviously you will also get some porn if you search "first time anal"!! But there are also some helpful things written on the subject. Gotta love the internet!! Happy humping!

Delightfulwoman20

THE KEY TO HAVING ANAL S** IS TO BE ONYOUR STOMACH WHEN HE ENTERS YOU AND TO JUST BREATH AND RELAX.CLITORAL STIMULATION WILL HELP ALOT. DONT TENSE UP BECAUSE IT WILL ONLY MAKE IT HURT EVEN MORE. BUT ONCE YOU GET THE HANG OF IT YOU WILL ENJOY IT ALOT MORE.

Antoinette2011

Not a huge fan of the back door. I tried it and it just wasn't for me. Good luck though!

erincassidy06

Alcohol helps a lot! We never start with butt ***. For me I like it best for him to start going down on me and then,. He will start "warming" me up with his fingers. I think that is the most important part, you can't just start with the p****. He will do that until I tell him that I'm ready. And off we go! We have tried several different possitions and I like laying on my back best, there is not as much pressure in that possition.

 And remember lots of lub!