for thoughts and prayers but my sister's BIL (not MH, but her SIL's husband)is really sick. He was admitted to the hospital for pneumonia last week. He was severly dehydrated but they thought that was it. After they got him hydrated, he couldn't breathe so they did the tube thing and he was on a machine. Once his oxygen levels went up, they removed the tube.
Today they discovered he has a hole or multiple holes (not sure which - his wife is such a wreck she can barely speak) in his lungs. It's not good. We don't know if he's going to be ok or what any of this means. My sis is headed there tonight to be with her SIL. SIL's parents are already there but they are taking care of her daughter.
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What a scary situation. He is in my thoughts and prayers.