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and, durnit, we had a good WW beebee, C&P
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MOH issues...is it ok to demote her?!
posted at 2/16/2010 3:35 PM CST
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Lately I have been wondering if I rushed into choosing my MOH. I am an only child and therefore have no sisters to bestow the honor too. My fiance's sister and I have only gotten really close since we got enaged. The girl I chose to be my MOH was my bestfriend in highschool. We were inseperable. We're still really close and I know she is my closest and oldest friend. Lately, however, she has been engaging in activities that I'm not sure I want my MOH to do. I know it's not my spot to judge her, but there are pictures all over Facebook of her partying, doing bikini bullriding at bars, winning the D-Cup Divas lingerie pagent at a bar and they aren't very flattering pictures. I don't want my friends/family to get the wrong idea of her and I also don't want someone like that being my most important member of my wedding party. What do I do? Do I demote her? Is that wrong? HELP PLEASE!!! |
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02-02-2010
OMAHA
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I respect everyone's opinions, but of course you haven't seen the
pictures. My issue is not her (lack of) care/involvement in my
wedding. Yes, it hurts my feelings that of all my bridesmaids, my MOH
is the LEAST interested in any of my plans. She hasn't asked me
ANYTHING about my wedding other than when can she get her dress. My
issue is that I believe I rushed into asking her. When we were growing
up I always wanted her to be my MOH. But these pictures just prove to
me what my fiance has been saying for years now...as a friend she
doesn't share my same values. You may not agree, but I believe the
people that I choose for my wedding party are reflections on me as a
person. I think the person I choose as MOH is obviously someone that I
value/respect very much. At this point I regret asking her so soon,
,but I'm not sure that I will "demote" her, because I would be upset if
someone did that to me. I'll wait and see if she gets any interest at
all in my wedding in the next few months.
Re: and, durnit, we had a good WW beebee, C&P
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Unless she's planning on displaying the pictures at the reception, whoTF cares?