HOW often.....

brittbug

How often do you have sex
[Poll]

ashleym909

i like to at least 3 times a week, 2 if we're suuper busy or tired, but we make time. sooo 3 to 4 i guess

LemonLover33

It really depends. We haven't been in the same state for the last couple of months. So when we visit, it's everyday. But, thinking back, it was around 3-4 times a week.

sarahtucker

I envy you 3-4 time a weekers. We only do it about 1 time a week, 2 times if I'm lucky...but if it is 2 times it is 2 times in one day. We only do it in the mornings on the weekends...that's the only time hubby is horny. Well always in the morning but during the week we just don't have time. It's frustrating.

riderpunk

Depends how busy we are with our work.  Normally 1-3 times a month..normally there's one week out of the month its no fly zone anyway.

LemonLover33

The month after we got married, I became violently ill and we didn't have sex for about a month. But, when our sex is spread out more, I think it is higher quality. I rather quality than quantity any day! 

brittbug

LemonLover33:

The month after we got married, I became violently ill and we didn't have sex for about a month. But, when our sex is spread out more, I think it is higher quality. I rather quality than quantity any day! 

amen

chrissykaren

sarahtucker:

I envy you 3-4 time a weekers. We only do it about 1 time a week, 2 times if I'm lucky...but if it is 2 times it is 2 times in one day. We only do it in the mornings on the weekends...that's the only time hubby is horny. Well always in the morning but during the week we just don't have time. It's frustrating.

 I saw you are planning a wedding.  Our sex life dropped a LOT when I was wedding planning - we were just so busy and so tired ALL the time!

It is much better now that we are married, and we average once a day (well, some times we skip a day, but do it twice others... whatever).  A stressful time in your life will make your sex life a little more difficult.  Hang in there!

MrsSmiley09

Since we are married its definetly not as much as we used too.  I stay up late and my husband goes to sleep early.  So some nights I try to go to bed early so we can make time for it. 

We are similiar to another post I saw...on the weekends is when we really have the majority of our sex.  During the week he is tired and his mind is on work.  During the weekend when he is off at least 2 or 3 times we have sex!  Love the weekends!

sarahtucker

chrissykaren:

sarahtucker:

I envy you 3-4 time a weekers. We only do it about 1 time a week, 2 times if I'm lucky...but if it is 2 times it is 2 times in one day. We only do it in the mornings on the weekends...that's the only time hubby is horny. Well always in the morning but during the week we just don't have time. It's frustrating.

 I saw you are planning a wedding.  Our sex life dropped a LOT when I was wedding planning - we were just so busy and so tired ALL the time!

It is much better now that we are married, and we average once a day (well, some times we skip a day, but do it twice others... whatever).  A stressful time in your life will make your sex life a little more difficult. 

Hang in there!

We're not planning, we've almost been married for a year But I know stress can be a problem...but I don't think it's our problem. At least DH says he isn't stressed. I think we are just our of sync. He wants it in the morning, which I can NOT get into as much as I try. And I want it at night, which he can not get into. We've actually done really well for the last 2 weeks where if we have time in the morning I take care of him and in the evening he takes care of me. And on the weekends we can have fun and take our time.

HisCB

i have an app on my phone where i track sex, periods and hpts,

coincedentally last 3 months have been 14 times. this month, a bit less because i was really sick for about a week and weve both been really tired and stuff.

its funny because him and i were talking about this to some of our best friends the other day. he was complaining because i want sex more than him, which my guy friend was saying is backwards.

its not that i want it more than him, its that he physically doesnt feel up to it as often is do.

lizlaughlove21

This is kind of funny because the national average of how often married couples have sex is every 2 weeks.

We must all be newlyweds if we are doing it several times weekly haha

PhotoMoto

So we haven't been married that long, but we have done it everyday.  Its starting to get a little old but its kind of a challenge for us at this point and that keeps the fun going

BBgurl

When we first started dating it was about 5-7 times a day. Then as we started working long hours it turned into once a day, then a few times a week then maybe once a week.Then we eliminated a lot of baggage and stressors and we went right back to bunny rabbit mode.

We are currently separated because of his job but when we are together, everyday, multiple times a day (maybe 2 or 3). And in our case, it's ALWAYS good. I have never been not has an O with him (i usually have multiple per session).

Bless him and his man parts LOL 

ashley1184

sarahtucker:

Well always in the morning but during the week we just don't have time. It's frustrating.

lol I will wake up earlier just to get it in the morning if that's the only time he wants it.

My H and I used to be 1 or 2 times a week kind of people, but lately it's been nearly everyday. We decided to make sex a priority and do it everday if we can. Call me shallow, but sex is super important to me. I find that we are much nicer to each other when we have more sex. It really helps us feel close and connected all the time and just happier in general.

LMS05

2-3 times a week. I'm happy with that amount. I can't imagine having sex everyday. I just have no interest in having it that often. 

*serendipity*

I wonder how often whales have sex...?

Aanc

*serendipity*:

I wonder how often whales have sex...?

 * Aanc falls off my chair, rolls down the stairs and into the street and DIES