~Andrea~

MilesOfSmiles

I totally can relate to you on the lack of friends after marriage thing. Isn't it AMAZING how a marriage can totally change your friendships?? I was just saying this to my DH the other day, how I feel I don't have any friends anymore! It's not that they don't like my DH, and it's not that he doesn't like them... everything just seemed to change so much, and it's really sad!!!

BeckieC832

Andrea - What am I, chopped liver? I kid, I kid! I know exactly what you mean, but you and I both know my desire to ditch the old and make the new as far as my old girlfriends go...

 And wow, for once I can get on the nest. I've been banned for a couple wees. How nice of you, nest gods.

~Mrs. Tibbz~

see, and here I was thinking I was going CRAZY... but I just feel "out of touch" with all my girls... not that I don't love my friends that I share with DH, but I need my "own" friends back....and you're totally right, it's incredibly sad...  I just miss them all... but I'm going to e-mail or myspace or whatever it takes to get them all together and maybe do a girls weekend away or like a day away just the girls or something... I just feel like I need it....

 

 

~Mrs. Tibbz~

Beckie, are you serious, you're like the ONE girl i still talk to in my life!! well you and Amy!!! But seriously work BFF.. you know you aren't one of the lost ones!!!!!!!

Inlove05

Can I join in!?

I have only two really good friends that I keep in touch with from high school.  These are my go-to gals with everything.  They each have their own lives, significant others etc.  I always feel like we have drifted apart and are not as close as we used to be and that makes me sad.  But I know that if I ever needed anything they would be there.   But, I agree things really change once you get married AND have a baby!  = )

BeckieC832

Haha, oh I know, I just like to be a punk sometimes...who else can I have escort me to the bathroom so I can throw up maybe? Or make come with me into a conference room with a nasty co-worker makes me cry?! Kristin should be happy she doesn't sit any closer, we're trouble!

 

cnj050607

I want to jump on as well.  I dont talk to any of my friends from Highschool anymore.  I have a good friend (my brothers girlfriend) who lives in Maine, and then my other good friend lives in NY.  So i really dont have a whole lot of girl friends either.  Nobody to call or vent too when Im upset.  I tried making new "friends" online, but that never works out either.

It almost upsets me that i see pictures of women my age (who are married with kids) going out and having fun with their friends, ha-ha! I want in on that.  Oh well.  I guess Im too shy so that is probably half my problem. 

~Mrs. Tibbz~

I am really truly glad I'm not the only one who feels like this... granted it's crappy that we all feel this way... but it's more sad than anything..

all of my friends have kids...and most are married and off doing their own thing a lot of the times... so it's hard...

my two best friends I barely see... one of which until today I hadn't talked to in like 6 weeks... ridiculosu!

BeckieC832

I love how we sit right next to each other but we talk on message boards. Haha.

~Mrs. Tibbz~

I am really truly glad I'm not the only one who feels like this... granted it's crappy that we all feel this way... but it's more sad than anything..

all of my friends have kids...and most are married and off doing their own thing a lot of the times... so it's hard...

my two best friends I barely see... one of which until today I hadn't talked to in like 6 weeks... ridiculous!!!

~Mrs. Tibbz~

I think it's hilarious that we do as well also too!!! but at the same time, had it not been for the Knot, I'd have never met you IRL, SO we're just keeping it real and bringing it back to our "roots" Beckie!