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Good news :)

I don't have PPD - yay! But my doctor wants me to set up times to leave Austin with people so I can get out of the house or take a nap or whatever. She thinks I am just feeling overwhelmed and fatigued for caring for a new baby....and said I am not alone in feeling the way I am, that it is very common, which made me feel really good. I'm very stubborn when it comes to accepting help....so my parents have agreed that they want to help me and I just need to let them. The doctor also wants me to see a counselor, but quite frankly, I don't want to - I just feel I have always been very open about my feelings to my friends and family members and getting those feelings out is half the battle...but in the near future, if I feel that getting time to myself isn't enough, then I will call the counsler she recommended....one thing at a time, right?

Thank you all so much for your kind words and your support!! 

Re: Good news :)

  • That is great news - and it is awesome that your parents have stepped in to support you on this!  I like that you are doing it one step at a time - and hope that the first step is all you'll need.  Super news - big hugs!
  • I"m glad that you were able to have some resolution to your worries!!  I hope that with your parents help things start to get a little less stressful!
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  • I'm glad you went to the Dr just to make sure that you did/did not have PPD.  It is always a good feeling to get confirmation either way.  Try to get some time off and give yourself a break!!!  Catch a movie, go to the spa, and give yourself sometime to just enjoy Austin.  Who cares if you do everything right....and who says what is right anyway!!  Just have fun with him!

  • Lisa, i'm so very happy for you! And i'm thrilled that your mother and DH are stepping up to the plate. Kudos to you for reaching out, I know it wasn't easy for you!
  • Honestly, I would see a counselor at least a couple times to completely rule it out. Your OB should have some recs for people who specialize in women with PPD. Having dealt with depression before, I knew my symptoms and how I was feeling was similar to prior bouts, so my dr wrote me a script for Celexa. But for someone who hasn't dealt with it before, I would just see someone anyway. You can be great at getting your feelings out, but a?counselor?can help you deal with them. It can't hurt :)
  • Great news, Lisa! ?Just make sure you ask for help when you need it and please keep an eye on things. ?Let me know if you need anything.
  • Sounds like a good visit and plan!  Parenting is an overwhelming thing at times......it's ok to feel that way and I'm glad that you are setting up a good support system for yourself!
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