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Things are really bad, could use some help

Hi,

I know I asked for help a few weeks ago, and things seemed to get better.  Things have taken a really bad turn for DH and I - he is threatening to end our marriage.  I am at work and an absolute mess right now.  I don't know what to do anymore.  Please, if you can, keep us in your thoughts - we can really use all the good thoughts we can gather.  If you are friends with me on facebook, please don't say anything on there - he's on there too.

Thanks so much ladies.

Re: Things are really bad, could use some help

  • I'm really sorry to hear this J.  Please let me know if I can help in any way.  I'm here to listen to if you want to vent, cry, whatever. 
  • Oh my gosh...I am so sorry that things have gotten this bad. Please let me know if I can do ANYTHING.
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  • Oh, I'm so sorry to hear about that.  Hopefully you two will be able to patch things up soon. 
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  • I'm sorry J.  Let me know if I can help in any way.
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  • Oh my, I am so sorry to hear this.  Please know that you can come here anytime to vent, ask for advice, or anything else that might help.  I will keep you in my thoughts and let us know if there is anything at all that we can do!
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  • You know I'm always here for you. Let me know.
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  • Oh wow, J, I'm so sorry.  I will definitely be thinking about you.  And, like the others said, if you need anything, don't hesitate.
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  • I'm so sorry to hear that you're having a rough time.  We're always here to vent to if you need it, and I know we all send love and support your way!
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  • I am so sorry.  We are always here to listen and vent to if you need to.
  • I am so sorry to hear this.  If you need anything at all, please let me know.  I hope things improve soon.  You will be in my T&P.
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  • I'm so sorry to hear that. I hope you guys are able to work out whatever is going on.

  • I am so sorry to hear that.  I hope you both can work things out, and please know that we are here for you.
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  • (hugs)

    Hang in there, and I'm sending prayers that you guys can work things out.

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  • I'm sorry - I'll be sending lots of T&P your way. I hope you are able to figure things out.
  • So sorry to hear! My thoughts are with you guys.
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  • I am so sorry to hear this.  I will keep you in my thoughts and I hope things get better. 
  • Thanks ladies, your kind words are definitely appreciated.  I am just beside myself and keep praying that things will get better.  I just want to curl up in a ball and cry.  But, I have to get ready for a party tomorrow - UGH!  I usually love doing my parties, but I'm just feeling not into it.

    Please keep the good thoughts and prayers coming - I could use all the positive energy that can be mustered.

    PS - Albany area ladies - if you have nothing to do tomorrow and would like to take a ride to Middle Grove with me for my party I'd love to have you along.  I would love the company and it might keep me from crying my whole way there.

  • I'm so sorry you are going through this.  You are in my thoughts and prayers.
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  • {hugs} i am so sorry. will keep you both in my thoughts and prayers.
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  • Awwwwww, good vibes your way!
  • I'm so sorry to hear this. I hope things work out for you.
  • I'm so sorry. You are definitely in my prayers! *hugs*
  • I am so sorry Jenn!  You are in my thoughts and prayers.

     

    I also wanted to say that a few weeks ago my husband and I were driving behind you in the New Scotland/Krumkill/85 area.  Or someone else with your car cling/magnet!

  • ((hugs))
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  • I am so sorry J!!!!

    You are in my thoughts!!!

  • ugh im so sorry to hear this. is there anything any of us can do? even if you just want to chat or vent? are you on gmail chat or anything? chatting i know can help alot. im hoping everything works out for you guys! :) your in my thoughts!
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