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My Dh wants to know....
if your Dh pulls out to orgasm does he ejaculate on you? If he does do you feel "disrespected"? Thoughts, comments, and disgusted looks welcome, but he really wants to know how other wives feel about it. According to him it's only okay before you're married. I told him he had life in a bl unt.
Re: My Dh wants to know....
The only reason I told him to pull out was because it was in the morning before I went to work and I did not want to leak all day. Otherwise he ejaculates inside me. He called me at work freaking out saying he didn't want me to feel like a whore, but I told him to do it. So when I got home he wanted to know what others think about it.
BTW. It doesn't bother me at all.
I don't understand why it would be ok BEFORE you got married???
I don't feel disrespected, but it is gross, lol
*sigh*
Your H is a bit of a jackasss for thinking some sexual activities are not okay for the wife. This is the type of man who won't allow his wife to give him BJs because "she has to kiss our kids with that mouth" and feels entitled to get them elswhere.
I enjoy watching my partner come on me. It's fun, sexy and ot at all disrespectful.
This.
It doesn't bother me in the least, and I don't consider it disrespectful at all so long as both people are okay with it. Sometimes penetration hurts for me after just a few minutes, so I often tell my H to pull our and help him finish somewhere else on my body. Certainly nothing about our sex life became more G-rated after we got married, and I'd be terribly upset if it did!
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Boy there's a lot going on here, and little of it has to do with semen.
First off - it's OK to treat girlfriends like whores?
Second off - Google the Madonna/Whore complex.
But I really, really take issue with his stance on respect toward women but only if you're married to them. This is really strange, and IMO, disturbing. Sorry.
For one, disrespected isn't a word. It's something low class in nature and there is no such animal in the English language. The word respect has no past tense.
Your H has a very warped view of ejaculation. Huh? Okay because you're married? That makes no sense at all whatsoever....I think counseling -- and sex therapy -- is in order here for him.
Otherwise he ejaculates inside me. He called me at work freaking out saying he didn't want me to feel like a whore, but I told him to do it. So when I got home he wanted to know what others think about it.
BTW. It doesn't bother me at all.
That he has this outlook about ejaculation would bother ME a whole lot. It's simply not healthy and it's disturbing in nature.
So I guess your DH refused to wear the condoms, eh?
guess im the biggest fvcking whore here
im disrespected (not a word sorry) on my:
stomach, mouth, face, and in me. yesss!
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Doesn't bother me a bit. DH does it all the time...he likes it, I like it because I prefer wiping off to leaking for the rest of the day.
I'm giving your husband the serious side eye though for not thinking it's OK now that you're married. Something in his logic is flawed.
LOL..nice eh love you ladies too!!
While I agree that disrespect/disrespected is over-used and abused today, and most certainly grating, according to both the OED and Merriam-Webster, it is a word:
http://www.dailywritingtips.com/that-annoying-new-verb-%E2%80%9Cdisrespect%E2%80%9D/ (cites OED; I tried to confirm this on my own but I can't figure out the password to my library account that lets me view the complete version)
http://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2004/01/word-court/2886/ (cites OED and Merriam-Webster)
DH does it to me 99% of the time
It doesn't make me feel as though he's showing me a lack of respect; I don't mind at all (especially since he's then usually the one who scurries off to get something to clean it all up, hehe).
But, yeah, his views on respect pre- and post-marriage are...interesting, to say the least.
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My DH does it to me all the time...I think it's normal, but definitely not gross or 'disrespectful'. In fact, I definitely prefer it to him doing it inside. I feel THAT is gross. I hate leaking.
By the way, I'm new here, can someone tell me how to post a pic as like a signature? I see many of you doing that, but don't know how to do it myself.