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another house warming question

FI and I bought a house in August.  However, we're not living there together until the wedding.  FI is living there.. or rather sleeping there with all of this things still packed into boxes.  I don't live there and we don't even have a bed. 

We have a LOT of renovating to do.  We definitely bought a fixer-upper.  That's why FI hasn't "moved in" because it would be silly to unpack and then repack the room when we rip-up the carpet, paint, etc.

Our house will not be "warm" until our wedding in July when I move in and we start making it a "home", renovating and such.  So then, does the one year rule apply to our house warming party?

 Would it be wrong for us to have a house warming in late fall/winter?

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Re: another house warming question

  • Your FI has really been living out of boxes and without a bed for the last 7 months, and plans to do so for another 5 months?

    Why not start renovating now?  I don't get why anyone would choose to live like that for an entire year.

    But in your situation, it wouldn't seem that odd to have a housewarming next fall.  It's everything leading up to it that seems odd.

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  • Not at all.  People will know/understand the situation.  So I say go for it.
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    Your FI has really been living out of boxes and without a bed for the last 7 months, and plans to do so for another 5 months?

    Why not start renovating now?  I don't get why anyone would choose to live like that for an entire year.

    But in your situation, it wouldn't seem that odd to have a housewarming next fall.  It's everything leading up to it that seems odd.

     

    FI is working almost 12 hours a day and I'm working full time AND going to grad school AND I have a five-year-old son.  So we really just aren't going to have time until FI is off for the summer.

    FI got a job teaching close to where I live with my parents.  So we bought a house in that town because FI thinks renting is a waste of money.  So he sleeps/eats there so he can save time/money by not driving a whole hour to work everyday.  He's a slob anyway, so the house would look the same even if he had moved in completely.

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  • Also - FI has a bed.  It's a twin.  But that leaves no place for me to sleep if i wanted to live there.
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  • I think it will be fine. I am sure your friends and family will understandYes
  • How about a painting party over a weekend and pull everything together. Might be fun as long as your friends can paint in a neat enough way....
  • Yeah I saw a really neat idea for a housewarming/renovating party.  It was called "Color Me Happy"

    They took those paint samples (chips?) and typed their invites on those. 

    http://www.thehaystackneedleonline.com/2009/11/color-me-happy-housewarming.html 

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