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wedding shower gift

How much should you spend on a shower gift if you are in the wedding?

Re: wedding shower gift

  • Whatever you are comfortable with and can afford. There isn't a "rule" on this. Everyone is different, has different income levels, and different priorities.
  • imagePunkyBooster:
    Whatever you are comfortable with and can afford. There isn't a "rule" on this. Everyone is different, has different income levels, and different priorities.

    Ditto Punky.  The bride knows you're likely spending a good amount to be in the wedding already, so just do whatever works for you and your budget.

    I'd rather be rock climbing or playing volleyball
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  • Often times, the bridesmaids will all go in for a bigger gift on the registry and it ends up being a little cheaper than you would normally spend. Might be an option for you.

    I ditto what everyone else said as well.

  • Every wedding I have been in we have picked the most expensive item and we all split it. I still get some little things to go with it but usually we split the big ticket items.
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  • I agree with everyone that it is up to you, but as a reference, I spent about $50 on a shower gift for a wedding that I was in.  I figured I was also buying a wedding gift and spending money on a BM dress, etc.  But I think that going in on a bigger gift is a good idea!
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