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Would U?
Going off of the post from yesterday, I would now like to ask everyone, would it offend you if you found out that DH/SO faked it every now and then?
I know some of us may think how can a man fake it but it is possible!!
Re: Would U?
I'm a guy...and I've faked it!
Actually very easy to do with a condom.
I don't know how they would without a condom though?
I couldn't see H faking it, he's more of the type that would stop if he can't finish and let me know in a little fit of frustration.how do you know he has never faked it? Does he know when you are faking?
I should probably clarify that statement and say that it has been a long time since I've done that. I've learned to just stop now, and not feel bad about not "finishing".
And as to whether I would be hurt if I learned my FI were faking it...I would be crushed.
he's either came in a condom, on my stomach, in my mouth, or in me.
and i have never had to fake it
This.
It is to an extent...but what you're doing is downright badgering people.
I don't think he's ever faked it. I say that because there have been times [usually if we're going for Round 2 too soon or if he's super stressed about work] where he just says "Babe, it's not happening."
*Oh, I realized I didn't answer the original question. I think I would be hurt if I found out he was faking it. I'd want to know what was going on that he felt like he couldn't just tell me.
Yes, I would be offended the same way DH would be if I did. If it's not working tell me, and I'll make it work another way.
Dh and I discuss our sex life and he has never faked it, nor have I.
i havent faked with my FI, old bfs, yes. but my FI and i talk a lot and are very honest. sometimes, it just isnt gonna happen, we are both ok with that. we usually take a little break and start again, but its not the end of the world if we dont... we both still enjoy the journey even when we dont get to the destination... the journey is the best part. sometimes i dont even miss Oing because the sex was so hot and passionate and we felt so wonderfull connected to eachother thats the feeling im going for. if all i wanted was to O, i have a di|do for that.
i used to get upset when i couldnt get him to come, when we first got together, because so many of my BFs put all the emphasis on the comming part of it that it almost didnt feel like we had sex if he didnt. then i realized that with my FI sex is so much more than just a means to an end, ya know?
i suppose i would be upset if i found out he had faked because i would want to know why he didnt think he could just be honest. but i know he hasnt faked because we dont use condoms, and because there have been those times when he just wasnt gonna come. no big deal.
as for guys faking, im sure its not impossible.